Capt MJ,
Thank you for your advice. Wheneve I read your response, I feel my heart rate slowing down and a sense of calmness takes over. I wish you lived next door so I can just run over and thank you.

Yes we will take it step by step and see what new and stronger evidence we can provide. At this point, being evaluated by doctors will military background would be the last step but it’s so hard to find those providers.
Do you know of any suggestions where to start looking besides Google search?
Thank you again.
Looking for doctors with military background is not strictly necessary, and they may or may not be familiar with military accession standards, though they will have more general familiarity with what fitness for duty really means and the hoops you are jumping through.
There is no direct way to find them. But - you can look at their educational profiles. Look for the residency done at military hospitals - Naval Hospital Portsmouth, Walter Reed Army Medical Center (which later merged with the National Naval Medical Center at Bethesda to become the Walter Reed National Military Medical Center), Brooke Army Medical Center, David Grant USAF Medical Center, etc. Or you might see “USUHS” for the medical school - Uniformed Services University for the Health Sciences, F. Edward Hebert School of Medicine.
As a military retiree in the DC area, I get my medical care from Johns Hopkins Healthcare. Using the method above, and also looking at the totality of their education and experience, I have managed to line up a former Army dermatologist, a retired Navy PCM, and a few others. They get me. My husband’s PCM is a retired Navy flight surgeon, who takes good care of him.
They are out there.
It’s also a good mental exercise to think through worst case - inability to enter military service of any kind. There are still ways to serve the country as a federal civilian, especially at the “ABC” agencies and departments. Your son can google any combination of “federal agency X and student programs.” He may not be able to be a door-kicker, but he can have the door-kicker’s back in support functions in operations, logistics, cyber, intelligence, analysis, forensics, etc.
Some samples:
DoD STEM seeks to attract, inspire, and develop exceptional STEM talent across the education continuum and advance the current DoD STEM workforce to meet future defense technological challenges.
dodstem.us
www.cia.gov
Protect the American people and uphold the Constitution by joining the FBI as a special agent, intelligence analyst, or professional in over 200 career trajectories.
fbijobs.gov
The National Security Agency offer internships, scholarships, a co-op program and more.
www.intelligencecareers.gov
NASA.gov brings you the latest images, videos and news from America's space agency. Get the latest updates on NASA missions, watch NASA TV live, and learn about our quest to reveal the unknown and benefit all humankind.
www.nasa.gov