I’d say don’t stress if you can’t make it to the Mystic Flag ceremony. Being from farther away, we had to make a choice to go for the flag ceremony or go at Labor Day. I did get stressed because it seemed like a lot of parents were going to the flag ceremony. After the flag ceremony, I was able to FaceTime my child for a long time and catch up, and then when he was on Eagle we were able to FaceTime more. For Labor Day I got to spend the entire weekend with him instead of just a few hours at the flag ceremony. I think everyone is really different about when is the right time to visit but don’t stress if you can’t attend the flag ceremony!!