I so appreciate all the feedback. After all of the work involved in applying and having been working toward his goal of attending a service academy since he was in 8th grade, it's only natural for him (and me!) to hold on to any last hope for any way to get there this year.
From the get-go he knew that getting an appointment was more likely not going to happen than happen, but once he was informed he was fully qualified, the dream became more real to him, so it has stung a bit more than he thought. He's s doing the "woulda, coulda, shoulda" dance in his head, and trying to make peace with what's not meant to be for him this coming year.
All very normal things considering that a lot of the applicants who will hear no like he did, for them this will be one of the first times they haven't attained a goal they have worked so very hard to achieve. He does have many irons still in the fire in regard to Plans B, C, and D. He knows he wants to serve his country and he knows what he wants to study; the only thing that has changed is what road he will now take to get there.
From the get-go he knew that getting an appointment was more likely not going to happen than happen, but once he was informed he was fully qualified, the dream became more real to him, so it has stung a bit more than he thought. He's s doing the "woulda, coulda, shoulda" dance in his head, and trying to make peace with what's not meant to be for him this coming year.
All very normal things considering that a lot of the applicants who will hear no like he did, for them this will be one of the first times they haven't attained a goal they have worked so very hard to achieve. He does have many irons still in the fire in regard to Plans B, C, and D. He knows he wants to serve his country and he knows what he wants to study; the only thing that has changed is what road he will now take to get there.