Armypanda, if you are serious about the possibility of attending West Point, I strongly suggest visiting if time and money allow it. As a parent and a non-military family, I can say that I am very impressed with the faculty and leadership at West Point. Each person I have heard speak is intelligent, dedicated and well-spoken. I have confidence that my son is being challenged and molded into the best version of himself in ways that a civilian school would not. For example, DS is a second year and has a plebe that he is to mentor. This weekend was a significant and through room inspection. DS worked with his plebe to get his room squared away first before spending a late night getting his room ready. Servant leadership. (Plus DS has learned about dusting—something most teen boys are completely unaware

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He has 2 roommates who are his best friend. One is the son of a minister, the other is ranked in the top of his class. One is from the north, the other from the south. The roommate who is top of the class held tutoring sessions for the other plebes in calculus and physics—about 10 plebes in all. Again, selfless service.
West Point has cadets from every congressIona district across our nation who have had to go through the Vetting of the application process. Is everyone a saint? No, but you are going to get as classmates some very impressive people and you will be challenged and transformed.
West Point is a national treasure. DS often goes to trophy point and looks out at the view of the Hudson and reflects on how lucky and blessed he is to be there. It is unfortunate that folks in your area have a dim view of the military. That is an uninformed view. A trip to West Point should help confirm that it is a fantastic place to become a leader.