I have said this before several times and will no doubt say it again before my days are over.
IMO it’s all about the job not the service. It’s the jobs that might have a certain culture not a service.
If someone wants to fly for the military IMO they will be happy with any service they can get an aviation slot.
If they want spec ops they should be happy ( happy being a relative term) with SEAL, Ranger, Recon, etc.
If they want military cyber they should be happy with cyber no matter where they end up.
I served with two completely different services in 3 totally different jobs. It was the job and the culture for that job that I loved or did not love .
Although before I served I did think it was about which service. I was wrong.
Grads of the USMA have become Navy Captains and Admirals. Grads of the USMA have become USMC MOH awardees. It’s really about the job in most instances IMO .