Your Accepted - What now?

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The academy will provide lots of information in the next few months before you report and they are your very best source of information. I would like to emphasize a few areas to help each of you get the best start possible:

1. Ensure your applicant is still working out, it will make summer SWAB training much easier arriving in shape, not overweight, and with some good broken in newer tennis shoes with comfy inserts. Don't get discharged on Day 1 for being 10 pounds over weight on R-day.

1A. Swimming - Your cadet will be given a swim test early. The Academy defines swimming as being able to swim freestyle for 500 yards and tread water for 10 min. If this does not come easy to your cadet, now is the time to find a pool and practice. Every year a few kids report almost completely unable to swim, and this adds unnecessary stress to their first months at the Academy. They don't have to be an Olympic speed swimmer, but they will spend a lot of time on the water and it is a safety concern for all involved if they can't swim very well. Incidentally, during 4/c year they will take a PE class to earn their Red Cross Lifeguarding qualification. So, being able to swim moderately well will really help here as well.

2. Try to get a dental hygienist in before you report, don't want to be slowed down by a cavity. (They schedule future appointments there, but more in the fall or so.)

3. If you have a retainer from wearing braces and it is on it's last leg, replace it in advance, one less thing to worry about. They will replace a lost one at the academy but it will take at least two appointments for fitting etc. and you will miss some training while at the clinic.

4. When female cadets, birth control should be discussed as your family sees fit. Most female cadets choose to get an IUD and that requires 3 off-base appointments during the semester (One for information at the OBGYN, one to fit, and one follow up), the academy will schedule and Tri-care will pay. Some parents like to be part of the discussion, if that is you, now is the time before they report.

5. Banking and passports have been discussed. There is a Navy Fed credit union on base if your cadet likes to do things in person. Others go with USAA 100% online and they provide very cheap dorm insurance for the military gear and laptops. Any bank will do.

6. Try to have some fun and make some family memories (covid safe of course) before they report because once they report, they are on the Academy schedule and you will not see them nearly as often.

7. Some of the summer cadre may search up incoming cadets social media, (I think it is required they do so to make sure incoming cadets comply with the no social media rule; someone will correct me if I guessed wrong on this) so if your social media needs a little housekeeping, now is the time. No reason to attract extra cadre attention the first week :) and it is never too late to professionalize your online image.

8. ** Most important ** Write a letter to your Swab for them to take with them when they report to Swab summer to only be opened when they are thinking about quitting. Each year some kids quit and the first the parent hears about it is when they call from the airport to say pick me up. They are adults. Summer training is hard, and with covid it is even harder. Every Swab at some point will question why they are there. A nice letter from home reminding them why they made the choice they did and offering some encouragement can go a long way to assisting your child. Mail is notoriously slow, especially in the beginning of Swab summer so put the letter in their reporting backpack now so they have it if/when they need it.

9. The Security Clearance process.

After all the fun forms on the USCGA website are done, some will be contacted before they report, others over Swab summer, but at some point every incoming cadet will get an email from USCGA with instructions and a link to fill our their on-line security clearance forms (SF-86 automated I believe). This is an important step. The instructions are detailed and you want to follow them precisely. This SF-86 is not to be confused with some initial screening forms you will have to complete before reporting where they do some preliminary security checks.

First, let me explain there are two camps of parents, the first who do everything for their kid, can't stop from being involved with every detail and have their kids AO on speed dial. The second camp includes parents who say their kid is an adult and let the kid handle 100% of tasks. Each type likes shaming the other type just for fun :) especially in online forums and the class Facebook page. Other phrases you will often hear is "Semper Gumby" which means always flexible, chill, and things change; also get used to hearing "your cadet is the best source of information" well opinions vary on that as well. I say all this to let you know, regardless of which camp you are in as a parent, at least offer to help you kid with the security clearance forms, they make IRS forms look easy :)

The security clearance paperwork is one area to take very seriously, the forms are signed under penalty of perjury, and the goal is to be as complete and accurate as possible, so your paperwork moves smoothly through the process, gets investigated, adjudicated and a clearance granted as timely as possible.

For example you generally have to list every foreign country the cadet visited with dates, foreign born relatives, every residence and every job the kid has ever had etc. It is by far the most demanding of all the forms you will complete. It will also have a quick suspense date to complete as there is a government wide push to clear out the backlog of security clearances. So, if you get the email before you report, read the academy instructions fully, gather all the address, trip info, etc you need, clear a few hours and work with your kid on this form. Mistakes, omissions and errors will require follow-up up inquiries and delay your clearance. FYI-you do not need a full field background to be completed in advance of reporting, the process takes 6 months to a year from when you submit the form until you are granted a clearance, but it is in everyone's best interest to get this done correctly and quickly.

I know this is a bit long, but of all the forms, this one matters and is not often discussed.

Finally, read everything the Academy sends you and on the class page when they provide the link. They have been doing this for a while, it helps if you listen to them.

Again Congratulations on the adventure.
 
There are a lot of resources regarding Swab Summer and Coast Guard Academy life in general. One current 1st class Cadet has been posting videos for years. This is one for Swab Summer
Also, there is a book called Swab Summer at the United States Coast Guard Academy by Markham Starr which goes into pretty good detail of what to expect not only on Day one but after as well. The book we bought has a copyright date of 2016 so they called it R day back then but it is now referred to as Day 1. The book quotes many Cadets ranging from 4th Class (freshman) through 1st Class (seniors).
 
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There's a lot of good stuff in Erin's Youtube channel so be sure to go through the other videos to pick up a good taste of reality. Helpful stuff on how to pack so you can clean your room easily, what sort of space a 3c room has, what happens in the summer plus things happening in her life. My DD found her a calming influence, inasmuch as it showed some bad, some good and some detail without dispelling all the mystery.
 
Thanks for mentioning YouTube & her channel. Also found a 5min video by Madaus, "The Day I Left Home"... seems really well-made and inspiring.
 
For those accepted, a few things to consider:

1. Parents weekend is tentatively set for Sept 23-25, 2022. Hotels are hard to come by in the New London area at times, so might be a good idea to reserve a room now that you can cancel without penalty. If possible, try to go to parents weekend the first - 4/c year, to meet everyone and learn how academy life works. The schedule and agenda is online and will be updated, but is generally the same each year. In the past, they have allowed parents to attend class on Friday with their cadets, though this can be modified based on covid etc. So, if this occurs this year, I recommend at least one parent attend class with your cadet. You will see the quality of instruction, small class size, and the fact that each instructor knows each cadet by name and class participation is high, basically everything you would want in attending a selective college.

2. If you can't make parents weekend due to a conflict etc., the next best option is Columbus day as USCGA observes all federal holidays this will be a 3-day weekend where your cadet should get libo at least one day.

3. The vast majority of cadets are from the New England area so travel to visit attend games etc. is fairly easy. For those of you out of the New England area, the closest airports are Providence (PVD) and Hartford, then Boston. PVD is the closest. Think about arraignments to get your cadet home after finals (Last Military Obligation - LMO). Things change so most try Southwest as there are no change fees, and everything at USCGA changes all the time.

4. Plan on sending weekly care packages over each Swab summer week, they will be much appreciated. Full details will be on your parent Facebook page.

5. Mail will be very slow. At times it is difficult not to get concerned when you have not got a letter home. Just keep mailing letters to them, they will get them eventually.

6. If you are worried, your child may have a rough time at Swab summer, advise them to ask to meet with the Chaplin if they need advice. The Chaplin corps at USCGA is great, and they deal with cadets all the time. It is a safe place to get help.

7. Most importantly, as high school sports are still in session, try not to get injured prior to reporting. Cadets get an incoming physical upon arrival. Also they will undergo mandatory and random drug testing.

8. There is a very nice person who takes photographs all Swab summer and posts them to Facebook where you get to see your kid. Tip: Download these photos as they are posted and make a nice phot album for your cadet. The details of the Facebook page will be provided on your class page.

Congratulations!
 
8. There is a very nice person who takes photographs all Swab summer and posts them to Facebook where you get to see your kid. Tip: Download these photos as they are posted and make a nice phot album for your cadet. The details of the Facebook page will be provided on your class page.
Paul Duddy is the MAN! Look for his picture site on Facebook (PDuddy Pics) to see just about everything going on at the academy, year round. He's a particular gift to the parents of swabs who will have very limited contact with them during the summer. Here's a bit about him.

 
2. If you can't make parents weekend due to a conflict etc., the next best option is Columbus day as USCGA observes all federal holidays this will be a 3-day weekend where your cadet should get libo at least one day.
If you're not too far from campus (ie don't buy plane tickets for this) another good time to visit is the Mystic Flag Ceremony, which marks the mid-point of swab summer. They get their phones for the first time, they can get off campus for the afternoon, and it's an oasis of normal in a long summer. Again, you can only see them for a few hours, but if you live in the area go and take your kid and as many of their pals as will fit in your vehicle and bring them to Target and get ice cream. The smiles are amazing.

4. Plan on sending weekly care packages over each Swab summer week, they will be much appreciated. Full details will be on your parent Facebook page.

5. Mail will be very slow. At times it is difficult not to get concerned when you have not got a letter home. Just keep mailing letters to them, they will get them eventually.
The mail can be v e r y slow, so if you send that many packages they might arrive two or three at a time. Maybe it was just Covid, but things got way behind last summer so we didn't send that many. Also, if you do send things assume that it'll be shared so send more than you think one cadet can consume.

6. If you are worried, your child may have a rough time at Swab summer, advise them to ask to meet with the Chaplin if they need advice. The Chaplin corps at USCGA is great, and they deal with cadets all the time. It is a safe place to get help.
Even if your swab has never been religious before they may end up doing Sunday services just to get out a bit (and there's always food!)
 
A couple more:

Women should start thinking about hair now. A few go short, ranging from the crewcut to ear length, and the others have to learn to do a bun or ponytail. Google is the resource here. My DD kept her hair longish and practiced her bun all spring until it was both fast and stable by I Day. You don't want to be spending many of your 90 seconds in the morning on your hair, so get good at it while home so you've got a little less to think about in the moment.

Don't get too wrapped up in shopping and packing. They'll be issued a lot of stuff (eg three types of shoes), they can't have a bunch of other things, and you can mail them packages once they get the hang of the rules. The few that seem to matter are broken in running shoes, comfortable socks and underwear (that will likely be tossed at the end of summer) and not bringing a ton of stuff that'll end up in storage. There are a lot of discussions on all these topics each year, so search and read, search and read.

Lots of rules about what to send and not send, but the no caffeine thing can be huge if your swab is a big coffee drinker. Caffeine withdrawal can result in headaches and irritability that are super not helpful in the context of strangers yelling at you, so taper off before you go. And finding cereal bars that aren't loaded up with Energy can be surprisingly difficult sometimes when you're in a hurry.

There were a couple things that the parents' association told us about that we were not expecting at all. Beyond the normal things like Tide pens and lint rollers were a lighter (for loose threads) and cough drops (because they YELL EVERYTHING ALL SUMMER LONG AND THE ONES THAT DONT COMPLETELY LOSE TEHIR VOICES ALL SOUND LIKE PEPPERMINT PATTY.)
 
A couple more:

Women should start thinking about hair now. A few go short, ranging from the crewcut to ear length, and the others have to learn to do a bun or ponytail. Google is the resource here. My DD kept her hair longish and practiced her bun all spring until it was both fast and stable by I Day. You don't want to be spending many of your 90 seconds in the morning on your hair, so get good at it while home so you've got a little less to think about in the moment.

Don't get too wrapped up in shopping and packing. They'll be issued a lot of stuff (eg three types of shoes), they can't have a bunch of other things, and you can mail them packages once they get the hang of the rules. The few that seem to matter are broken in running shoes, comfortable socks and underwear (that will likely be tossed at the end of summer) and not bringing a ton of stuff that'll end up in storage. There are a lot of discussions on all these topics each year, so search and read, search and read.

Lots of rules about what to send and not send, but the no caffeine thing can be huge if your swab is a big coffee drinker. Caffeine withdrawal can result in headaches and irritability that are super not helpful in the context of strangers yelling at you, so taper off before you go. And finding cereal bars that aren't loaded up with Energy can be surprisingly difficult sometimes when you're in a hurry.

There were a couple things that the parents' association told us about that we were not expecting at all. Beyond the normal things like Tide pens and lint rollers were a lighter (for loose threads) and cough drops (because they YELL EVERYTHING ALL SUMMER LONG AND THE ONES THAT DONT COMPLETELY LOSE TEHIR VOICES ALL SOUND LIKE PEPPERMINT PATTY.)
All great advice! I actually let my kid pack her own care packages before she left and they were labeled for the different weeks. I added things here and there for a surprise but she guessed what weeks she might need deodorant, toothpaste, etc.
 
Also remember for care packages that they do not have a lot of space to store items, and any food must to stored in a sealed container. My daughter quickly asked me not to send anything else because she did not have space. And unless they changed it, they can only receive one package a week (with size limits) during swab summer. So make sure you coordinate anything you send with any other family members or friends who might want to send something.
 
I recommend you send a nice stack of stationery, blank cards, addresses, pens and stamps. I thought my son would never write us, but I just counted - and he sent us 23 letters during swab summer!

Make it as easy as possible for the kid to write. I pre- addressed and stamped some envelopes so he could quickly write a note… some literally said “send food”! (Ie. Cliff bars). Some letters were lengthy with fun stories. Beware the sad letter(s)… this is heartbreaking. Thankfully, we only received one of those! Sundays are usually when he had time to write. The Del-Val parent group even made its Swab families some post cards with fill in the blank answers like… I feel____, I need____, which were very useful! Thanks Del-Val!

Also, I made labels with Our Swab’s address and gave a sheet of labels to family and friends and asked them to write a couple letters over the summer. Remind friends and family to keep the communication positive, encouraging, and don’t give lots of info about what’s going on in the world.

Swab summer is hard, so letters from home help keep the morale up for both swabs and parents.

And even with all of your efforts, if your child doesn’t write, know they are in good hands, but keep writing to them and don’t take their lack of writing personally. The kids have a lot to process over Swab summer.

BTW- my son is a 4/c and our next son is on the waitlist, so I hope we will be joining you on Day One!
 
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That's a lot of letters. I think we only got about three or four, and they were all written in chunks as time allowed. There'd be three paragraphs in blue, another harried one in black, some more blue, then an abrupt Gotta get This In The Mail and signature. I think our DD just loved immersing herself in the summer so she didn't reach out to us much.
 
I agree that you should encourage friends and family to write your swab. I know our daughter loved hearing from us, but she was extra excited when she would get a letter from a friend or teacher or coach. Kids are so used to texting each other, but they don't have their phones during swab summer. For a friend to take the time to put pen to paper and actually write a letter or even send a card with a short note really meant a lot to our daughter.
 
Letters from the dog or cat commenting about everyday home life are also comforting, what leftovers were good, what fun item dropped off the table and got eaten, at-home siblings borrowing clothes or moving into a vacated room…
 
I have to agree that the letters were the best part about swab summer. I got some wonderful letters from my Swab. He appreciated receiving letters much more than packages. I tried to find funny and encouraging cards to send, and even found these joke notes you put in elementary school lunchboxes, and always included one in his letters. Many of my family sent notes, and he would get them in waves. They really made his day. He also appreciated the self addressed, stamped envelopes. When he had time, he could just throw his letter in the envelope and send it on it's way. I think we only sent 2 packages during swab summer, one was the one we pre-ordered from one of the parent groups. It came in the plastic shoebox so he had a place to store any snacks. The other was a box of items he asked for. He didn't really want sweets, high protein easy to eat bars, vitamin C drops, chapstick, and the electrolyte powder (no caffeine) you can add to water were appreciated.
 
Laptops: Each year varies a little, but in the past they get issued a dell laptop with a CAC (mil ID) card reader, a monitor and a hub for all the wires. The tip here is the academy buys these in bulk from Dell and gets them with a high level of support and extended warranty. In the past, the warranty has been for 4 years and covers accidental damage, etc. There is an on site tech desk at the academy where they can do repairs, order new batteries under warranty etc. So, once swab summer is over, the Cadet can check their Dell service tag number for warranty details on what coverage was issued this year. Most Cadets replace the battery every two years or so under warranty. I mention this as the laptop is charged to the Cadets initial Loan so in essence you are paying for it, so check to see the warranty details.

Some families go out and buy laptop coverage or the cadet gets a renters insurance policy through USAA and pays additional for laptop coverage. My recommendation is see what the warranty is on the laptop and what extended coverage USCGA obtained before you spend extra to insure the laptop.

Renters Insurance: USAA offers around 10K of insurance for about $60.00 - $70.00 a year to cadets at academies. It covers military uniforms and gear without deductible, along with the usual renters coverage. To get the cadet rate, you must show a residence address of Mohegan Ave on the application and military status at USAA must be a Cadet in an Academy. Some get this and some don't, but it is good to know your options. There is usually an USAA rep at a table on R-day with specifics for your class.

Car Insurance: Again, if you have USAA, tell them your kid is at the Academy and they will cover them for free as a Non-Operator until their senior (1/c) year because they know they are not authorized a POV the first 3 years and the only time they may drive is when they are home with you at Christmas break, etc. Insurance for 18 year old's is expensive, so this is good to be aware of. If/when they get a car, USAA must be informed and will start charging full rates again.

Health Insurance: As the academy recommends, keep them on your family plan for at least 2 years, until the re-sign and commit to the service. If for some reason (change of mind, injury, etc) they depart in the first two years, their TRI Care will end and your family plan will be in effect.

Life Insurance: When sworn, they will be covered under SGLI for 400K of life insurance for the military. Premiums will be deducted from their pay.

Finally, I am not trying to sell you USAA insurance, but they are a bank often used by military members, started by officers, and have several unique products tailored to military cadets. It is worth a look to see what they offer. Other insurance companies are also good and may have similar products.
 
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