I couldn't agree with you more. If this is something a parent is imposing on their child, how can your child fully excel and be happy and something he/she doesn't truly want? This is HIS dream, in fact he had always told me (from 6th-9th grade) - that he wanted to go to MIT. The summer between 9th and 10th grade, he went to the aviation challenge camp (at the USAFA campus) - that's when his decision was made, he was set on the USAFA. I was actually not really on board with the USAFA - being an AD Spouse, I didn't really want my son to be AD too. It's not a bad life, but there are many many challenges to face. I guess I had always hoped to keep him close to home.
I want this for him, because he wants it. I'd be happy to keep him around at a JC. I know what he has accomplished and what a great kid he is (probably why i'm not ready to kick him out the door just yet). I won't be disappointed IN him, i'll be disappointed FOR him.
In 31 days, hopefully we will all have answers...
Happy Birthday to your DS!!!Well fellow mailbox stalkers, it is finally March. Back in December it seemed like it would never get here. As with everyone, this has been my DS's dream since 2005. Today, his 18th birthday, I posted a picture of him on Facebook that I had taken in 2006, 1 year after he declared he was joining AFA and going to USAFA. The picture is of him with Col. James Kasler, Retired. DS is wearing an AF jacket and hat and is so honored to be in the presence of a great hero. Right now he has an AROTC 3-yr AD scholarship at ERAU. The Army has always been his 2nd choice, a close 2nd but 2nd nonetheless. As much as I'd love him to get a birthday phone call from his MOC, I know that is probably not going to happen (I can still dream, right). But I do know that we are all 1 day closer to getting answers. No matter what, our brave DD and DS's are on their way to fulfilling their destiny--how exciting for all of them and how rewarding for all us parents. Thanks to everyone for the amazing support on this thread and site--I can't imagine this ride without you all. Best of luck to everyone.
Found out our MOC slot was taken. Was an early pick. Said might get another but not looking good. But she said he was highly competitive and not to give up ALL hope. (sorry for bad grammar/puncuation on my phone). Oh and she mentioned pick was an athlete but still is charged to MOC.
I don't even know of I should tell DS or just let March play out. He might know something is up from my swollen red eyes and if I manage to recover by then my attitude - I'm not a good faker - I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm devastated for him.
I'm assuming by your salutation that your son has a Presidential nom as well? It's far from over!
CristalLee,
I don't think it is over until your DS gets a TWE in the mail, especially if your DS has multiple nominations. And even then there is always the possibility of another envelope with a Prep appointment.... as they say, "It ain't over 'til it's over".
I know this keeps getting lost because the thread is now at 23 pages.
The AFA only updates 2X a week, if you watch this site you will see a trend. The same is true for the mailbox.
If you look at the appointment list, you will see a clear trend regarding the dates. Understand some will post the date of the letter received, others will post the letter dated. What they have in common is a 7 day difference.
Boards meet on Monday, Tuesday the AFA processes it, Wed. afternoon it is updated, and/or mailed. The AFA does not update daily. Watch this board for the appointment thread because it will light up.
In other words, you don't need to be Snoopy 6 days a week. Let's be honest, if you live in CO you will get it quicker than the candidate in Maine or AK. I would not be Snoopy on Thursday if I live in NC. I would not be Snoopy if I live in UT on Monday. You are creating an issue where the mailbox makes your stomach will turn in knots.
As others will tell you, only about 30% when they gave out 1600 apptmts found out before March Madness. It is the minority that get an apptmt prior to the mass mailing.
I don't even know of I should tell DS or just let March play out. He might know something is up from my swollen red eyes and if I manage to recover by then my attitude - I'm not a good faker - I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm devastated for him.
I remember getting a postcard in the mail way back in Nov/Dec... But I don't remember what it said? I'm assuming we'd get some sort of official notification?