When another parent asks "Where did your son go to college", college educated people usually know what that means. Former enlisted generally know about the SA's as well. Yet I've run into air force enlisted men and women who have no idea. They ask "I was in the air force, where is your son at...." and I say "USAFA in Colorado Springs". Then they say "oh, at Peterson?".
Some heads pop back and say "wow", when you mention the USAFA as they are impressed. Some others need an additional comment like: "It's like West Point but for the air force." A portion of those people say "does that mean he
has to serve then". Obvously they were underwhelmed. Answer: "Yep. How do you think we win all of those wars, with knuckleheads? The armed forces need many of the best and brightest. Thank him the next time you see him for stepping up.".
Others anti-military types will comment: "I didn't know he was anxious to fight." Answer: "Actually he is fairly
anti-war (the last resort). Do you want
everyone in leadership positions in the military to be pro-war?" That will shut them up.
I've heard student comments like "what a waste" that my DS decided to go to a SA. That was before the standing ovation at awards night when the BFA was presented (
Big
Fat
Award).
If a parent sounds like they don't approve of his decision to go to a SA, I say "you should come out to Colorado Springs when he graduates in 2016,
President Obama will hand him his diploma".
So my approach to other parents who question his decision to serve is to be extremely proud and quick to set them straight.