I think usna1985's comments went up an over your cranium.
They were politely saying IMPO, you want to be spoon fed. Common sense is their point.
Got stitches at 4, not a whoopy to do, got stitches at 4 because you had a pin placed in your elbow is a whoopy to do. Pins are the issue, not stitches.
Had the flu at 15, no biggie. Had it at 15 and the doc prescribed an inhaler is a biggie.
We are here to support and guide, that is different than walking you through the process.
I have to say you I think you are fearful and second guessing yourself.
Read the directions and believe in yourself. There are times you need to ask how do I respond, i.e. prescribed an inhaler, but never used it. MPO, I don't think medically you are at those grey areas.