bburns112,
At this point, I do not think that it would hurt to call your congressman's district director and ask if the nomination decisions have been made and/or communicated. This assumes that you have not already done so.
You may find that the administrative staff who answers the phone may be able to easily answer this question.
I would not press in terms of your specific nomination, only if the decisions have been made and the timing of the notifications.
My sense is that a general inquiry regarding the process would not be adverse to any decision regarding your nomination.
Your attitude is very commendable.