1. Z

    USMC - Officer dating (schoolhouse / same command)

    My question is: Am I allowed to date (both USMC 2ndLt) while at primary MOS school being at this same unit? Specifically can I be open about it and disclose it to my chain of command in order to possibly be sent to the same geolocation eventually. Or would that be a no go to have a...
  2. A

    Relationship Between Officer and Enlisted

    Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 years now and we have decided to go into the CG but she wants to go to the academy and I want to go active duty. I was told that we cannot be dating when she is in academy and I’m active. We really want to stay together but can’t find what to do/ how...
  3. US2021

    Cadet dating Enlisted

    My friend says she knows someone that she thinks would be a good match for me and she wants to set us up on a blind date. We’ve never had any contact yet, but she mentioned that the “potential date” is enlisted (a year older than me). As a plebe, is this permitted?
  4. I

    Cadet dating rules

    I'm currently at usafa prep and am starting my fourth quarter, and I'm confident that I want to continue and eventually graduate from usafa. However, I've been hearing rumors around the prep school about rules that cadets must follow when dating. I'm currently dating my boyfriend of two years...
  5. M

    Dating at the AF (prior relationship)

    So I have a friend at the USAFA. I am applying to go there next year. Our relationship is somewhat romantic and I expect someday we will date. That is, if we’re allowed to. I know fraternizing is not allowed normally. But he has told me he filled out paperwork saying that we had a prior...
  6. XCpanda

    BCT Letters

    Hi! I have a few questions about writing letters to your significant other in BCT for USAFA. I plan to apply for USAFA as well once I am old enough. I have been told the DS sergeants and supervisors go through and read the mail. I was told to act no more than a friend in the letters, due to...
  7. Q

    Dating/Marriage within an NROTC unit.

    I was wondering what the UCMJ rules are with dating another Midshipmen of the same rank within your NROTC unit. I have been looking all over for an answer, and cannot get a straight forward answer. We will be commissioning/graduating at the same time, but will not be assigned to the same job or...
  8. S

    Life at the Academy

    While waiting to find out if I was appointed to the academy I heard about this forum and I had a few questions about the academy from people who have gone through it very recently. One of my concerns is that I won't be able to enjoy myself during college and my time will be spent getting yelled...