I sometimes find the condescension on this forum a little over the top. If a poster has a question let them post it. if someone wants to answer it-than someone can answer it.
There is a set group of posters no matter what question you ask, instead of answering it they say something like, "dont worry about it, you have no control over it." or "Loas arent the goal"
Question: what is a tornado?
Answer: there is nothing you can do to stop one so dont ask what one is-just worry about getting in the basement.
--I know to get in the basement-cant I just ask what a tornado is?
Question: what is the admission process?
Answer: there is nothing you can do to about it so dont ask -just do the best you can
--I know to do the best I can--cant I just ask about the admission process?
Question: what is an LOA?
Answer: They are rare-dont worry about it.
--I know tthey are rare--cant I just ask about it?
If people dont want to answer, than dont answer-
guess what-I know LOAs arent the goal. That wasn't even what I asked originally at all...but as usual it evolved into "loa's arent the goal" ...
The irony here is if you look at old posts of the posters who condescend for asking the questions-they asked the same questions when their kids were going through.
but now..."don't worry about it"