You should go. They will have you spend the night in the barracks w/ members of the team so you will be able to ask them anything...they will be honest w/ you. The recruiting weekends are fun; they typically bring several recruits up together, so you have other young people to be with who are not cadets. My son's visit included a breakfast meeting at the Thayer w/ the entire coaching staff (and the 10 recruits that came that weekend).