After graduation today, my son and many of his classmates made the rounds to many different homes for numerous get togethers and/or parties. Most kids, out of tradition, set up little "I love me" shrine of their accomplishments. Not as a means of "bragging" but as "Reflection" of their life so far. Many were set up by parents. They included pictures from the time they were infants to the present. letter jackets, awards, scholarships, letters of acceptance from colleges, state championships in sports, and in the case of my son also his appointment letter.
It wasn't so much a closure as it was a new beginning of another chapter in these young lives. The one thing we, as parents at my son's high school, have tried to impress upon the class of 2008 all year, has been a philosophy that has been around for many years. "It isn't the destination that is important, but rather the journey".
For all you 2012 appointees that will be starting BCT in a couple of weeks, and for any existing cadets who feel overwhelmed at times, realize the importance of "The Journey". Tomorrow is NEVER GUARANTEED!!! Enjoy today. Learn from every experience. Learn from those around you. Appreciate what you have and the opportunities you have been given. You ALL have been given an opportunity that most people in this country can't even imagine. While many will say the military and the academy is not for them, they are looking at it superficial. They have no idea what kind of opportunity it offers. Whether it's just for 5 years after graduation or if you make it a career. If you make the most of your experience, 1 day at a time, you will be rewarded. BCT will be easy. The academy will be rewarding. The military will be an accomplishment that will be part of your life that is never ending.
Life is all about perspective and attitude. Don't view it as a list of goals or objectives. If you do, you will always look towards tomorrow instead of what is in front of you today. With the right attitude, you can accomplish anything. Make your goals to be able to do the best that you can with what is presented to you today. Then you can look back at that as accomplishments. Challenges are only difficult if you are not prepared for them. And you are usually not prepared for them if you are looking too far into the future to take advantage of what is in front of you today. Remember, you didn't get to where you are today without going through the last 13 years of school and the experiences that went with that. Now, you have the knowledge to make your future easier to deal with and more rewarding. Live life 1 day at a time; enjoy every moment; realize that you can replace just about everything in life EXCEPT time; use it wisely; keep a positive attitude and perspective. Good luck to the class of 2012 going in, and best wishes to the rest of the cadets who are ready for the summer. Enjoy your lives. Later... Mike.....