@Dragomir The third time I applied I went all out and decided that I was not going to get rejected again. In college I took on every leadership opportunity that came my way and volunteered for everything in my NROTC unit. Academically, I got an excellent GPA and was taking around 20 credits. Outside of college I worked two jobs, played two sports, and organized a lot of volunteer opportunities to do work in the community. Over the summer all of the summer trainings got cancelled for NROTC, so I volunteered on a non-profit farm for 10-12 hours a day and that is honestly the reason I believe I was appointed. The man who owned the farm had a nephew who came to the Naval Academy and a son who went to Coast Guard and he wrote a really meaningful letter of recommendation that changed the course of my application.
The third time I applied I almost gave up. Knowing that I had done all these things beforehand and the Naval Academy did not want me was frustrating. My family and friends pushed me to finish the application and it was hard to complete the application. Even after all those things, plus 4 nominations from the state of Maryland which is absolutely unheard of, I still ended up being waitlisted. However, I received the call and now I am at this incredible institution making the most of this opportunity.
It is easy for me to say continue pushing because I eventually achieved my dream. I would be lying to you if I said it was an easy process to pick yourself up after rejection. However, I motivate you to work hard, make the sacrifices, and continue to apply if it is your dream. This place is the best decision I have made in my life and it is absolutely worth the grind to get in and the grind to stay here.