First Reaction When Your DS/DD Decided to Apply?

Discussion in 'Service Academy Parents' started by harrynm034, Nov 13, 2018.

  1. bopper

    bopper Member

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    I think it is like if you go to medical school...doctors now will try to dissuade you. If you can see yourself doing anything else, then do that. But if that is the only thing you can see yourself doing, then go ahead.

    For you, you can decide to try for a Service Academy and live a military life right away, or go ROTC and have a more typical College life before you join a service.
     
  2. harrynm034

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    Thank you! I want something different, and have experienced college life through upward bound. Life there was boring so I will probably apply to SA or SMC!
     
  3. Sandydesert

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    DS said about halfway through 7th grade that he intended to go to USNA. I said " You and a lot of other kids want to go there too. What is plan B? " His response was " I don't need plan B, I'm going to make sure I'm one of the kids that gets in and serves my country by being in charge of a boat or submarine some day." We fully supported his applying; what worried me was how heartbroken he would have been if he hadn't gotten in. It is all he talked about since seventh grade. He is now a 2C.
     
  4. fencersmother

    fencersmother 10-Year Member Founding Member

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    One twin was 100% onboard for USAFA from the summer before senior HS year. The other guy... more contemplative, weighing pros and cons.

    For Fencersfather and I, we were very pleased they went together, and knew that their education would be top notch. For parents of identical twins, I think we were more concerned about them being separated than we were about their college choices.

    Both flying their airframe of choice now, married, one with 3 boys, one with 2 girls. In many respects, a great life. Only downside: deployments and LONG missions away from home.
     
  5. FlyBoy1993

    FlyBoy1993 5-Year Member

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    Scared as hell...

    that he would never pass a room inspection.
     
  6. Soldiergriz

    Soldiergriz Husband, Dad, Soldier

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    Under-rated post! Well done.
     
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  7. charlestonmom5

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    The desire to attend a service academy was the best bug that could have bitten my DS! Sophmore year of high school, he set his sights on applying, and was told he better get his A game on, and keep it that way!
     
  8. jbs123

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    PROUD
    RELIEF - No tuition payments and guaranteed job upon graduation.
    ALARMED - One woman’s reaction to learning that DS1 was applying to West Point was “and you are OK with that?” Another said she would be devastated if her son went into the Army. NIMBY at its finest.

    DS1 wanted West Point as early as middle school. I supported him, but quietly hoped he would go ROTC. Near the end I came around and was OK with West Point. In the end he got the dreaded TWE and a 4 year AROTC scholarship. He is currently an MS3 and is loving having the regular college experience.

    DS2 wanted nothing to do with the military. Then he got an athletic recruiting email from USMMA . He went on an overnight visit and was sold on Kings Point. He is currently a Plebe and is thriving there.
     
  9. mcfamilyof4

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    first, shock and confusion as we have no military history in family and no clue about academies. then once DS informed us of the why and the how , we felt immense pride and gratitude for his choices.
     
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  10. VelveteenR

    VelveteenR Just gathering dust in the nursery...

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    Our son still can't pass one at home. Sigh.
     
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  11. ginapenny

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    My DS told me when he was about 11. Once I looked into what USAFA was, I was proud!!! I knew we had a long road to getting there but believed in him. He never wavered. I remain supportive and very proud!
     
  12. Falcon A

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    Neither can mine . . . he is a First . . . he graduates and commissions in May . . . he also gets married in May . . . THAT is when that s*** stops! . . . :D
     
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