your Firstie will be able to attend all Commissioning Week Events, it is also Graduation, and they’ve more than earned their place at the celebrations planned throughout the week. On Graduation Day, If Commissioning is delayed, your Mid will be with their Company, on the field, wearing their Dress Whites (even if they are pursuing a USMC Commmission.). When the Ensigns-to-be rise to take the Oath your Mid will remain seated, and if they’re pursuing the Marine Corps route, your Mid will remain seated during that oath. FYI, Your Mid will not be the only person sitting. (At my Mid’s Commissioning, there were many who remained seated, as their Commissioning was delayed). How many I couldn’t say, but more than I thought there’d be for sure. I noticed only because I was aware of the circumstances for a few of them. I wish your Mid good luck with whatever decision they ultimately make. But if they’re serious about fighting for their Commission, they can choose to pursue that route and if granted, can have their Commissioning ceremonies performed privately or en masse with the others who were also delayed.