justsomecadet
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- Mar 16, 2023
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I haven't logged in here in almost a year. Every now and then I glance at it, and usually get bored and walk away. Mostly, it's admissions questions that get few concrete responses. Most of the chatter, though, is arguments about the academy, the military, and life that get hundreds of replies.
What confounds me is what all these old grads and parents are doing on this forum. Mostly, it seems, someone asks an innocuous admissions question and you guys analyze and make assumptions about a person's entire life, giving advice on everything under the sun. Too often, your opinions are irrelevant or even damaging.
I logged in today and saw half the comments on a post yucking it up making fun of someone asking for leather-free boots. The other half were essentially lecturing the poster on the ethos of the military. Hardly anyone provided anything of value. In another post bemoaning standards at USAFA, a long time poster and moderator made a sweeping generalization saying non-white cadets were more likely have their hair out of regs. No one batted an eye. I've seen posts where a highschooler admits to lying or trying weed or some other common mistake, and most of the commenters question the poster's fitness for the military, their integrity, their maturity, etc. On multiple occasions I've seen parents or grads providing wildly inaccurate information about fitness or weight standards, advising highschoolers to lose weight to meet the BMI standards. It's ridiculous. Most athletes are over the BMI standard, and instead easily pass the tape test.
I can't say it any clearer: You Don't Know What You're Talking About.
When I was a candidate, reading this forum made me less excited to come to USAFA. It's filled with judgement, toxicity, and hypocrisy. You all (parents and grads) hold up an unrealistic image of this school, and then attempt to compare prospective candidates to that image. You espouse ideals that no longer align with those of the air force (stereotyping minorities, advocating for the "good old days" of hazing). About a year ago, I wrote a post attempting to give a more balanced view of who cadets are. For candidates and prospective cadets, it might be worth a read, especially if the yapping on this forum makes you think sainthood or a stick up your rear is required for admission to USAFA.
I guess I just don't understand why so many old grads and parents frequent this page with such fervor. Is it to help prospective candidates? Most of you don't know much current, useful admissions info, evidenced by the fact that most admission questions get just a handful of replies. Are you here to provide your perspective on life at the academy? Again, your opinions are largely outdated, and sometimes offensive and damaging. It seems to me that most of you spend most of your time providing stodgy opinions and chatting up other grads and parents.
It's a shame to me since this is the only source of information I had as a prospective candidate, and I'm sure there are plenty of candidates who form their view of the Academy based on the posts here. Like the title says, I can't stand this forum, and I think this is probably the last time I'll post here. However, since I read these posts religiously while applying during COVID, I feel some small responsibility to current candidates to provide them a different perspective. Especially for those of you who seem to be chronically online here, maybe try not logging on here for a week, or a month. Take a walk. Read a book. Learn a new hobby. Whatever you do though, for the love of god, if you're going to pump your opinions into this space, at least try to make sure they're accurate and relevant.
What confounds me is what all these old grads and parents are doing on this forum. Mostly, it seems, someone asks an innocuous admissions question and you guys analyze and make assumptions about a person's entire life, giving advice on everything under the sun. Too often, your opinions are irrelevant or even damaging.
I logged in today and saw half the comments on a post yucking it up making fun of someone asking for leather-free boots. The other half were essentially lecturing the poster on the ethos of the military. Hardly anyone provided anything of value. In another post bemoaning standards at USAFA, a long time poster and moderator made a sweeping generalization saying non-white cadets were more likely have their hair out of regs. No one batted an eye. I've seen posts where a highschooler admits to lying or trying weed or some other common mistake, and most of the commenters question the poster's fitness for the military, their integrity, their maturity, etc. On multiple occasions I've seen parents or grads providing wildly inaccurate information about fitness or weight standards, advising highschoolers to lose weight to meet the BMI standards. It's ridiculous. Most athletes are over the BMI standard, and instead easily pass the tape test.
I can't say it any clearer: You Don't Know What You're Talking About.
When I was a candidate, reading this forum made me less excited to come to USAFA. It's filled with judgement, toxicity, and hypocrisy. You all (parents and grads) hold up an unrealistic image of this school, and then attempt to compare prospective candidates to that image. You espouse ideals that no longer align with those of the air force (stereotyping minorities, advocating for the "good old days" of hazing). About a year ago, I wrote a post attempting to give a more balanced view of who cadets are. For candidates and prospective cadets, it might be worth a read, especially if the yapping on this forum makes you think sainthood or a stick up your rear is required for admission to USAFA.
I guess I just don't understand why so many old grads and parents frequent this page with such fervor. Is it to help prospective candidates? Most of you don't know much current, useful admissions info, evidenced by the fact that most admission questions get just a handful of replies. Are you here to provide your perspective on life at the academy? Again, your opinions are largely outdated, and sometimes offensive and damaging. It seems to me that most of you spend most of your time providing stodgy opinions and chatting up other grads and parents.
It's a shame to me since this is the only source of information I had as a prospective candidate, and I'm sure there are plenty of candidates who form their view of the Academy based on the posts here. Like the title says, I can't stand this forum, and I think this is probably the last time I'll post here. However, since I read these posts religiously while applying during COVID, I feel some small responsibility to current candidates to provide them a different perspective. Especially for those of you who seem to be chronically online here, maybe try not logging on here for a week, or a month. Take a walk. Read a book. Learn a new hobby. Whatever you do though, for the love of god, if you're going to pump your opinions into this space, at least try to make sure they're accurate and relevant.