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You said what you are doing is pointless. The majority of what you are doing at USNA is taking college classes, so it is not pointless. You are working on earning a college degree which is helping to accomplish one of your goals. So there is a good point in you being there, for the short term at least.
USNA and the other academies factor into their equations that a certain percentage of people will decide to leave if the military is not the right fit for them for whatever reason. If you decide to transfer to a civilian college, that is not unexpected or unusual, and you should not feel guilty about leaving if it is not right for you. USNA will support your decision to leave in this case. You don’t need to feel like you don’t deserve being at USNA. You are just one of the people who has realized that the military is not for them. That is totally okay.
I don’t think you need anyone to save you from this battle. You just need someone to help you make a plan. If you can put a good plan in place, you will feel much more at peace with the situation. If you have a good plan, then you will be able to talk to your family (when the time is appropriate).
Other people on this thread have suggested people to talk to to help you with this. As they said, use wisdom.
I agree with others’ thoughts about college scholarships. I would guess there are options available to you that would make college more affordable, so you should not rule out that possibility.
USNA and the other academies factor into their equations that a certain percentage of people will decide to leave if the military is not the right fit for them for whatever reason. If you decide to transfer to a civilian college, that is not unexpected or unusual, and you should not feel guilty about leaving if it is not right for you. USNA will support your decision to leave in this case. You don’t need to feel like you don’t deserve being at USNA. You are just one of the people who has realized that the military is not for them. That is totally okay.
I don’t think you need anyone to save you from this battle. You just need someone to help you make a plan. If you can put a good plan in place, you will feel much more at peace with the situation. If you have a good plan, then you will be able to talk to your family (when the time is appropriate).
Other people on this thread have suggested people to talk to to help you with this. As they said, use wisdom.
I agree with others’ thoughts about college scholarships. I would guess there are options available to you that would make college more affordable, so you should not rule out that possibility.