However, I feel it must be a pretty unique set of circumstances for a cadet to drop out, especially so early in the process. I can't imagine that as being a "courageous" act. Is this something you'd have to have attended WP to understand? Perhaps DS needs to request additional interviews to find out what the USMA is really all about.
What is your initial perception if someone tells you that he or she attended
a SA but didn't graduated from it?
If a kid attends University of X and moves on to University of Y, do we say he or she quit or transferred?
Most cases, parents are very proud of their DD or DS attending a SA. Parents' love are unconditional, but that doesn't mean they won't be disappointed.
When I was a CBT cadre, a new cadet in my platoon quit. I had a length counseling session with him. He told me that he realized that he came to West Point because that's what his coach and father wanted him to do. After spending several weeks at CBT, he realized that West Point wasn't for him. Yes CBT is not the West Point, but it's a part of West Point life. Yes, made all the points about how things will get better. Ultimately, he had to make a choice, right or wrong. What would have been an easier choice - leaving or staying? I think leaving is a harder choice, so hence my comment.