Memphis9489
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Is there a point where answering "yes" crosses a line from being honest to being, maybe, somebody we don't want at the Naval Academy?
@Memphis9489, with all due respect, I’m a reasonably smart person, but I’m struggling to understand the post and this quote in particular. Don’t know what being sanctimonious has to do with anything — again, I don’t understand the post — but I do know that how one chooses to answer questions such as these while in pursuit of an academy appointment reveals a lot about one’s character. Now, how others choose to judge said character is up to them.
Anyhoo....
There are white lies. My wife gets her hair cut, comes home, asks me if I like it and I say, "It looks great!". Actually, I do not like it. But why should I make her feel bad? Her hair will grow back. This is no time for "honesty".
A young high schooler who wants to attend the Naval Academy took a few puffs on a joint at a party one night. Dumb! He knows it. But now he's being asked if he's ever smoked marijuana during the application process.
If experimenting like this is such an innocuous event - why ask the question in the first place? Even if there are follow-up questions and the candidate says, "I just took a few puffs one time at a party", he is now placing his admission in the hands of somebody he hopes believes him.
Answering in the affirmative to questions like these do not reveal the character of the applicant because the interpreter of those answers could conclude either of two things:
1) "We don't want a candidate who has abused alcohol or smoked marijuana. They have no character."
2) "We need midshipmen who are honest enough to admit that they abused alcohol or smoked marijuana. They have character."
So, you're not controlling the "character" aspect of it - they are.