Exactly the same with my DS. He applied for both scholarship and USNA...but he was ONLY interested in Naval/Marine service. The first time he did not get scholarship and was first alternate nom for USNA. They offered him USMMA and an Army ROTC scholarship. Not what he wanted. So, he went to UW-Milwaukee and joined NROTC as a program student. In a way, this was much better for him because it solidified his commitment to both the Navy and the military.
The next year he was much more mature, better prepared, and also had the experience of going through the process before. He, again, ONLY applied for NROTC and USNA. Still rejected for NROTC but received the principal nom and is currently at USNA and thriving.
Going through the process I remember thinking that the USNA process (still a lot of work, for sure) was much easier, less complicated, and cleaner than the NROTC process. Of course, it is imperative that you have an NROTC recruiting officer that knows what they are doing. I'm not sure he had that luxury. The process seemed very, very sloppy and clumsy to me. Either way, he's where he wants to be.
My guess is that this is very common. If you don't get it this year I would really recommend that you go to a school that offers NROTC and do the college program. It will make you a better candidate for USNA next year AND you can re-apply for NROTC national scholarship. Your local Unit can also offer you 3- and 2-year programs as you go along. There are lots of options for you. Don't worry about what you can't control and keep your chin up.
