My son is a 3/c there now. Sailed on an MSC ship in the Med in support of the USS Gerald Ford during the attack on Israel. Has a naval flight internship in June with an F-18 training squadron, and just was accepted into an Army Corps of Engineers program for his 2nd sailing. He is working his butt off, but absolutely loving the overall experience. They seem to embrace the quality of life as a badge of honor.
Also, my son was a recruited athlete, played his freshman year, and is not playing now. Not uncommon for some athletes to reprioritize
I have posted this numerous times, apologies to those who have seen it already. It's a must-watch for prospective mids and their parents.