jamzmom said:
Yep, I do believe my kid has an adopted family on his ship. He speaks highly of the guys & gals he sails with.
One of the most colorful merchant seaman I have ever met was when I was stationed in Diego Garcia, British Indian Ocean Territories. We had the Roll-On Roll-Off fleet anchored in the lagoon, laden with contingency wartime supplies and manned by the Merchant Marines.
We had also developed a relatively competitive Laser sailing fleet, a small one-man planing sailboat, and had slowly organized into a regular Sunday afternoon series of races. We had several collegiate sailors, one or two being ex all-Americans. Well, one Sunday afternoon this tall very scrawny lanky merchant seaman shows up dressed in long khaki pants and wearing a flannel shirt. Diego Garcia is right on the equator and very hot and very humid. Young Asian girls had trouble keeping their clothes on. At the skippers meeting, this guy started asking questions that were way way over our heads. The ex-collegiate sailors try to convince him that we're fun sailors and don't worry about his sort of questions. Immediately, us non-collegiate sailors began to feel very very inadequate. Anyway we launch. Our normal mode of launch was to push the boat into waist deep water, rig it, climb aboard and go sailing. This guy, still in long khaki trousers and flannel shirt, places his boat right at water's edge and without getting his feet wet, pushes off, and standing up, rigs his boat. Well, long story short, he kicks our collective ass, race after race, Sunday after Sunday, only showing up ashore on Sunday afternoon. After the races, he would adjourn to the Officers Club, silently, refusing to talk to anyone, drink himself silly, crawl to fleet landing, return to his ship, only to return the following Sunday.
When I returned to the States, I ran into an acquaintance of mine who had been an Olympic small boat sailor. I mentioned the episode. He replied, "Oh, that's __________ _______________, All-American from _______________(very prestigious university, I can't remember which). Very old New England family. He's one of the best foredeckmen in the world. Always made the Olympics. Always got kicked off before the Olympics for breaking some rule. Never raced in the Olympics. They finally gave up on him." A very colorful guy who I had the pleasure of racing against. I can always say that I raced against the best in the world and ...........nah, I never got close to him.
They are a very colorful, very interesting group.