No truer words were ever spoken!From another post I made -
"It takes a whole lot of "attaboys" to make up for one "aw ****" --not sure where I heard it first, but probably from one of my skippers.
Or course, there is the five basic responses learned first day in the Navy , "Yes sir, No Sir, Aye Aye Sir, I'll find out Sir, and No Excuse Sir." (Of course, substitute Maa'm when appropriate, getting that wrong can be fatal). You can usually get through anything by selecting and using the correct response from among those. (And then there is the saltier, 6th basic response I learned in my squadron "I f##ked up Sir"- If ever in the midst of a good butt chewing, using that response immediately disarms the chewer as all they can do at that point is agree with you !)
I really like the bible references to mustard seeds and vines that need growth and pruning. Those are parables I can understand (apart from most of the others)..
Faith the size of a Mustard Seed: "For truly I tell you, if you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you." — Matthew 17:20-21
“A truth that's told with bad intent. Beats all the lies you can invent.” ― William Blake
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."Hope for the best, but plan for the worst." I really buy into being cautiously optimistic.
Paraphrasing with this one: Red flags just look like flags when you are looking through rose-colored glasses. In other words, don't let self-interest cloud rational judgement.
.I am going to add one that I often use in coaching midshipmen on how to coach themselves out of slumps. It’s an excerpt from a letter written by Ralph Waldo Emerson to his daughter.
You must finish a term & finish every day, & be done with it. For manners, & for wise living, it is a vice to remember. You have done what you could — some blunders & absurdities no doubt crept in forget them as fast as you can tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it well & serenely, & with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day for all that is good & fair. It is too dear with its hopes & invitations to waste a moment on the rotten yesterdays.