@dad2four her portal will show what nominations that she may have received. If she got one from someone else, it will show there. If you do not have a nomination, your chances are very slim that something out of the ordinary may happen. You can still hold out hope, but we would be doing you a disservice if we did not advise to start finalizing a Plan B or C. TWEs are difficult to swallow and many of us have experienced them with our children.
In terms of Falcon Scholarships, there are around 5o awarded each year through admissions so they are hard to get as well.
There are many threads out there that talk about self-prep or a four year college with or without ROTC.
Each one has advantages and disadvantages and you would need to evaluate what is best for your situation. If your daughter has a strong academic foundation and the maturity to do well on her own, a four year college with challenging classes and ROTC is probably a better fit. If she needs help with her academics, does not have great test scores or lacks the maturity to succeed on her own, the self-prep option my be a better fit.