My question is how many people would continue to support this tradition in its current form if their son or daughter received an injury that either kept them from going flight, being commissioned or graduating?
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We talked with our DS this weekend and he told us about the injuries. My DS had a blast as he grew closer to his wing and blew off some much needed steam.
The correct approach is to dial is back just a little. I'm very sure that is exactly what will happen next year.
My question is how many people would continue to support this tradition in its current form if their son or daughter received an injury that either kept them from going flight, being commissioned or graduating?
My question is how many people would continue to support this tradition in its current form if their son or daughter received an injury that either kept them from going flight, being commissioned or graduating?
Could be worse. They could have a more dangerous tradition like the Japanese Academy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNVkXNdH2mA
My question is how many people would continue to support this tradition in its current form if their son or daughter received an injury that either kept them from going flight, being commissioned or graduating?
MN-DAD-2016
You are comparing apples to oranges!
My son played hockey till his senior year. He got 2 broken collar bones and broken arm (compound fracture) and countless close calls including a skate blade cutting his neck. He went back on the ice after he healed. He got a concussion snowboarding with a helmet as he likes to bomb the hill and yet he joined the snowboard club. He broke his arm in football and he broke his toe on the diving board doing flips. Now he is trying out for the USAFA boxing team and I expect he will be bloodied up and probably a pending broken nose.
To answer your earlier question, if my DS got hurt he would be participate in this tradition the following year.
My son played hockey till his senior year. He got 2 broken collar bones and broken arm (compound fracture) and countless close calls including a skate blade cutting his neck. He went back on the ice after he healed. He got a concussion snowboarding with a helmet as he likes to bomb the hill and yet he joined the snowboard club. He broke his arm in football and he broke his toe on the diving board doing flips. Now he is trying out for the USAFA boxing team and I expect he will be bloodied up and probably a pending broken nose.
To answer your earlier question, if my DS got hurt he would be participate in this tradition the following year. Should he lock himself in the room next year so he doesn't get hurt?
Bottom line is that parents have no say in the goings on at the Academy. They are part of the Air Force now. BGen Lengyel is dealing with the situation by basically telling the cadets to make it safe or no more First Snow/First Shirt.
My son played hockey till his senior year. He got 2 broken collar bones and broken arm (compound fracture) and countless close calls including a skate blade cutting his neck. He went back on the ice after he healed. He got a concussion snowboarding with a helmet as he likes to bomb the hill and yet he joined the snowboard club. He broke his arm in football and he broke his toe on the diving board doing flips. Now he is trying out for the USAFA boxing team and I expect he will be bloodied up and probably a pending broken nose.
To answer your earlier question, if my DS got hurt he would be participate in this tradition the following year. Should he lock himself in the room next year so he doesn't get hurt?
I am with you. My son played 3 sports in HS. Played Lax and Boxed at USAFA, he has had 2 surgeries on one of his knees, a concussion from boxing last year, countless other contussions. Played football, wrestled, and Lacrosse his whole freshman year of HS with a broken thumb. These kids are going to be asked by our country to possibly give their lives, or may be injured in battle. They have to be tough. As I said earlier, if they are not tough, maybe they should be going somewhere else. In my eyes traditions is forges the bonds between generations of warriors.
At what point do traditions become hazing or unnecessarily violent.
LTGEN Chesty Puller spent his career stopping unprofessional behavior like this among marines.
No he didn't. He spent his career winning campaigns, and making sure snot nosed officers gave the enlisted the respect they were due. I have read much about Gen Puller and have even gone to his gravesite to pay my respect.
This is not unprofessional behavior. It is a tradition among the cadets to blow off steam. As I stated before, my own son is one of the 1st Sgts which made him the target of this tradition. If he does not have a problem with it, why do you?
Tell your son or daughter that they have joined the military and that it sometimes gets a little rough. If he or she does not like a little rough house, maybe they should transfer into one of the Seven Sister Schools.
Polaris said:At what point do traditions become hazing or unnecessarily violent.