Just my perspective as the mom of a 2024.
@justdoit19 is spot on. We sent our plebe out June 29th alone on a plane, and I cried at the airport. And the grocery- the next day when out of habit I threw his favorite pizza in the cart (had to leave the cart and step outside for a bit), it does get better. Besides you-tube videos and FB posts, I didn't know what I was missing. I still don't. I have yet to visit the Yard since he reported. I miss him, sure. But with cell phones and FB we get live updates, far more than my grandma got when my dad was there.
Would I have enjoyed Parents Weekend and the pomp and circumstance? Damn straight I would have. I did grieve it all in the beginning. Not going to lie, I was a little bitter and salty about it. But, we survived, and one day whatever normal looks like will arrive. When I do get to a game, or see a parade, it will be that much more special.
Many moms and dads cannot afford to attend these events- pandemic or otherwise. Some never do make it to the yard. Keep those in your thoughts and their Mids. Perspective is so important.
For the new moms and dads and siblings, expect the unexpected. Semper gumby doesn't quite describe what your level of flexibility will have to be. Accept that now and it will be so much easier moving forward. Grieve the things that disappoint you, briefly, then remind yourself what your kid has accomplished and what your soon to be MID will achieve.
What keeps me going is the excitement I have for his future, the leadership he has seen and learned from, the major classes he is so excited to dive into and keep afloat in. The friendships he has already made, in a pandemic, as a plebe-- will last his whole life.
Hang in there, it's an adjustment in so many ways.