Okay time to read this, walk away, and think. Come back and re-read again. Hopefully, by that point you will be able to remove every emotion.
Trust me, I understand. I have been down this path with our DS, like many other parents, so we get the "roller coaster ride aka Pit in The Stomach".
From my understanding, the NROTC app asks if you have applied to any of the academies, so what lucky marcy stated is certainly a possibility.
Time out...You should know if the NROTC app asked that. Luckymacy should not be informing you of this.
No offense, but it was only a few short months ago.
Secondly, if you have forgotten, and you are applying to the USNA,
TALK TO YOUR BGO to see if that is the case.
However, if I get accepted to Duke with a NROTC scholarship, I would have a tough time deciding between the two.
I get that 1000% our DS opted ROTC over AFA. We had a very, very long conversation about why he would take one over the other.
In the end, the question that we posed was if MONEY wasn't a question and he had the same chance for his MILITARY goals, which would he take? He opted ROTC, feel free to pm me for the exact reasons.
Contact the Duke Detachment and ask for a one on one. ASK THEM POINT BLANK:
~If in Sept., I regret my decision will you support me for an NROTC nom?
~ What are my statistical chances for my career goal...BUD/S, UPT, Intel, etc.?
~Call ahead and make an apptmt. Ask them to allow you to talk one on one with their cadets. Get a feel for the det.
We took our DS to his college, he sat down with the Commander, he than hung with the cadets one on one. Det commanders are AD military members, their true goal is to guarantee that their branch has the best officers. People think they have an us (ROTC) against them (SA), but they don't. Their US is the service.
It just doesn't seem fair that someone could get rejected for being "over" qualified (though I'm troubled in believing that this might be the case), but alas, life isn't meant to be fair...
The NROTC system is tied to the university. Again, I am going from an AF POV.
You would not be rejected from being over qualified, you would be rejected that you are not the highest NROTC candidate for the universities on your list.
You need to absorb and accept this fact:
Some Universities talk to ROTC regarding admissions and some don't.
They can be the factor that pulls you across the finish line. Notre Dame doesn't talk, nor does UVA, and to the best of my knowledge Duke follows suit. UNCCH does talk.
I think you are a low reach for Duke. The reason I state this is because of the 93.9 GPA. Is that weighted? What are your actual AP classes? What is the school profile? 2070 SAT is low.
I think you are going to get a scholarship. I am not a betting woman!
Would it hurt to email the NROTC office and see if my file has been put up for review, and ask if there is any specific reason I haven't received a scholarship yet?
You are also applying for USNA, correct? Contact your BGO, don't jump up over their head.
They exist to hold your hand and walk you through the process. They know YOU, contact them first.
I've talked to the NROTC coordinator in my area and he is essentially clueless.
I believe it is USNA85 that is on this site who is a BGO. PM them for further direction regarding this situation. Be honest and upfront, DO NOT HIDE THE SKELETONS!
Should I email/call the representatives at Duke/Rochester to see if they know anything?
Can you visit either of these campuses? Rochester and Duke are worlds apart, not only in climate, but in school environment.
There would be nothing worse in this world if you got both of these schools on your list and you never stepped foot on their campus. Let's be honest Duke has K'town where they live in tents. That is campus life for a majority of students.
ROTC is a blend of college and your future military life. You need to find that balance for you.
I know this was long, but I hope that you can now look at it from a more wholistic approach.
Good luck, and thank you for wanting to serve!