Hello everyone, I'd like to preface this by saying I would seriously appreciate anyone taking the time to give advice or a new perspective on my situation. This will be the biggest decision I've ever made and I'm hoping that some input will help me stop stressing out. It's going to be a really long post, but try to stick with me. Thank you in advance.
I received an appointment to USAFA about three weeks ago and was initially really excited. However, after countless hours of research, attending the appointee tour yesterday (4/8), and talking one-on-one with numerous grads and current cadets (firsties and doolies), I'm seriously questioning my motives for applying and whether it's the right place for me. A bit about where I'm at: I'm currently attending my second semester at local regional university with a full-ride after graduating high school a year early. I took full advantage of concurrent enrollment and will be finishing an associate's in aviation science this semester with 93 credits. This is the easy route for me; my parents work here so I'd get tuition waived regardless of my scholarship. I've really enjoyed it so far.
The only other school I applied to was USAFA. I did so because I liked the idea of a challenge, I wanted the personal growth and leadership that came with the experiences, and I really wanted to fly for the Air Force and participate in the airmanship programs. I started an application with USNA but decided I'd much rather go to USAFA for numerous reasons that I won't get into here. Prestige never really mattered to me; I've been totally satisfied with the education I've received at my relatively unknown university, and while I know that the opportunities for research and access to technology at the academy are unparalleled, I don't see how the actual quality of academics would change. Anyway, I think it's important to note that I didn't mention wanting to become an officer as a reason for applying, which brings me to my dilemma.
During the application process, I always mentioned ROTC as my backup plan, but I never ended up finishing my application for that. Honestly, it never really appealed to me; my education was already paid for, and it seemed much harder to get a pilot slot out of the program. But the fact that I'm not in/interested in ROTC seriously worries me. Everybody on here says that the academy should not be the goal, but rather a means of achieving something after. And that something is becoming an officer and serving. After a lot of reflecting, I feel like I'm much more interested in taking advantage of the opportunities at the academy rather than the idea of becoming an officer. I'm certainly not opposed to it, but given the choice between the exact same job in the military vs. as a civilian, I'd take doing it as a civilian.
Since finishing my application five months ago, I've reflected on my ethics and values and decided that I don't think flying on the front lines is for me. My family is the polar opposite of a military family, and both of my parents really value the ethics of their jobs as professors. While I have massive respect for our nation's veterans, I don't think I could live with having to drop bombs and intentionally killing other people, which limits my careers to non-combat roles. It sounds crazy to change goals like that, but I think my passion for military aviation and aviation in general has always overshadowed my values until the idea of going to pilot training became all too real. Anyway, I don't really know what I want to do long-term now. Since deciding on this, I've realized I no longer have an ultimate goal to achieve after the academy, or at least one that would be more difficult to achieve through other means (I originally wanted UPT or ENJJPT). In fact, I could now double major in physics and mechanical engineering at my current university (which would be my plan), and graduate nearly two years before I'd graduate from the academy because of all the credits I already have. If I wanted to become an officer, I could join ROTC while doing that and become the same second lieutenant I'd be if I graduated the academy, except two years earlier and without the service requirement because I wouldn't need a scholarship. Furthermore, my university has a fantastic flight training program and I'm lucky enough to have access to a college fund that could pay for it if I decided to do that as well. This perspective really makes me think that I should just keep doing what I'm already doing. After all, I know someone out there is praying for an appointment and might not have the alternative that I do.
However, both myself and my parents recognize the incredible opportunities the academy has to offer that I wouldn't be able to get anywhere else. My dad thinks I should take this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and give it a shot. If I left, my tuition waiver would always be there for me back home. The amount of character improvement and personal development I'd go through would be unreal, and it sounds amazing to me. But the academy isn't a walk in the park. I know I'd need a whole lot more than just a "give it a shot" mindset to get through four years of life at the academy. And with no real goal that the academy would uniquely allow me to achieve, I'd just be there just for the sake of being there, for the experience, for the character building. I'm unsure whether or not I'd be able to get through it given the fact that I could leave and graduate way quicker while having much more fun and freedom at my current university. The military part of it just doesn't get me all that excited. When I look at the potential class schedule I'd have lined up if I stayed home, I get excited. But I also get excited thinking about the airmanship classes, study abroad opportunities, research programs, and camaraderie at the academy. I place a huge emphasis on the value of relationships in my life and if there's one place that will form lifelong bonds, it's the service academies.
People have told me that I got in for a reason, that the Air Force and my interviewers saw something in me. I got two congressional nominations, and I'm proud of it. But I have a 35 ACT, 3.99 HS GPA, and 93 college credits with a 4.0. Part of me feels like I got in because of my academics alone, and for a place like the academy, I'd much rather have the unwavering motivation to graduate and become an officer in the Air Force over a slight advantage in academics. But the other part of me knows that graduating from USAFA would be one of the greatest achievements in my life, and I'd be immensely proud of it. I certainly wouldn't be as proud if I graduated from my current university.
I could go on and on, but I'll spare you guys. If it isn't obvious yet, I'm a really indecisive person and my thoughts on this have ping-ponged back and forth way to many times, but I think I've done a decent job summarizing the never-ending river of thoughts that has been flowing through my head over the last three weeks. Honestly, I'm worried that if I decline, I'll regret it for the rest of my life. I came here because I know most of you have been through it; you guys know who succeeds and who fails at the academy through experience. While none of you know me personally, I'm hoping that I've provided enough insight into my thoughts and motives. And seriously, thank you so much for reading this mess of a post. Any advice would mean the world to me.
I received an appointment to USAFA about three weeks ago and was initially really excited. However, after countless hours of research, attending the appointee tour yesterday (4/8), and talking one-on-one with numerous grads and current cadets (firsties and doolies), I'm seriously questioning my motives for applying and whether it's the right place for me. A bit about where I'm at: I'm currently attending my second semester at local regional university with a full-ride after graduating high school a year early. I took full advantage of concurrent enrollment and will be finishing an associate's in aviation science this semester with 93 credits. This is the easy route for me; my parents work here so I'd get tuition waived regardless of my scholarship. I've really enjoyed it so far.
The only other school I applied to was USAFA. I did so because I liked the idea of a challenge, I wanted the personal growth and leadership that came with the experiences, and I really wanted to fly for the Air Force and participate in the airmanship programs. I started an application with USNA but decided I'd much rather go to USAFA for numerous reasons that I won't get into here. Prestige never really mattered to me; I've been totally satisfied with the education I've received at my relatively unknown university, and while I know that the opportunities for research and access to technology at the academy are unparalleled, I don't see how the actual quality of academics would change. Anyway, I think it's important to note that I didn't mention wanting to become an officer as a reason for applying, which brings me to my dilemma.
During the application process, I always mentioned ROTC as my backup plan, but I never ended up finishing my application for that. Honestly, it never really appealed to me; my education was already paid for, and it seemed much harder to get a pilot slot out of the program. But the fact that I'm not in/interested in ROTC seriously worries me. Everybody on here says that the academy should not be the goal, but rather a means of achieving something after. And that something is becoming an officer and serving. After a lot of reflecting, I feel like I'm much more interested in taking advantage of the opportunities at the academy rather than the idea of becoming an officer. I'm certainly not opposed to it, but given the choice between the exact same job in the military vs. as a civilian, I'd take doing it as a civilian.
Since finishing my application five months ago, I've reflected on my ethics and values and decided that I don't think flying on the front lines is for me. My family is the polar opposite of a military family, and both of my parents really value the ethics of their jobs as professors. While I have massive respect for our nation's veterans, I don't think I could live with having to drop bombs and intentionally killing other people, which limits my careers to non-combat roles. It sounds crazy to change goals like that, but I think my passion for military aviation and aviation in general has always overshadowed my values until the idea of going to pilot training became all too real. Anyway, I don't really know what I want to do long-term now. Since deciding on this, I've realized I no longer have an ultimate goal to achieve after the academy, or at least one that would be more difficult to achieve through other means (I originally wanted UPT or ENJJPT). In fact, I could now double major in physics and mechanical engineering at my current university (which would be my plan), and graduate nearly two years before I'd graduate from the academy because of all the credits I already have. If I wanted to become an officer, I could join ROTC while doing that and become the same second lieutenant I'd be if I graduated the academy, except two years earlier and without the service requirement because I wouldn't need a scholarship. Furthermore, my university has a fantastic flight training program and I'm lucky enough to have access to a college fund that could pay for it if I decided to do that as well. This perspective really makes me think that I should just keep doing what I'm already doing. After all, I know someone out there is praying for an appointment and might not have the alternative that I do.
However, both myself and my parents recognize the incredible opportunities the academy has to offer that I wouldn't be able to get anywhere else. My dad thinks I should take this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and give it a shot. If I left, my tuition waiver would always be there for me back home. The amount of character improvement and personal development I'd go through would be unreal, and it sounds amazing to me. But the academy isn't a walk in the park. I know I'd need a whole lot more than just a "give it a shot" mindset to get through four years of life at the academy. And with no real goal that the academy would uniquely allow me to achieve, I'd just be there just for the sake of being there, for the experience, for the character building. I'm unsure whether or not I'd be able to get through it given the fact that I could leave and graduate way quicker while having much more fun and freedom at my current university. The military part of it just doesn't get me all that excited. When I look at the potential class schedule I'd have lined up if I stayed home, I get excited. But I also get excited thinking about the airmanship classes, study abroad opportunities, research programs, and camaraderie at the academy. I place a huge emphasis on the value of relationships in my life and if there's one place that will form lifelong bonds, it's the service academies.
People have told me that I got in for a reason, that the Air Force and my interviewers saw something in me. I got two congressional nominations, and I'm proud of it. But I have a 35 ACT, 3.99 HS GPA, and 93 college credits with a 4.0. Part of me feels like I got in because of my academics alone, and for a place like the academy, I'd much rather have the unwavering motivation to graduate and become an officer in the Air Force over a slight advantage in academics. But the other part of me knows that graduating from USAFA would be one of the greatest achievements in my life, and I'd be immensely proud of it. I certainly wouldn't be as proud if I graduated from my current university.
I could go on and on, but I'll spare you guys. If it isn't obvious yet, I'm a really indecisive person and my thoughts on this have ping-ponged back and forth way to many times, but I think I've done a decent job summarizing the never-ending river of thoughts that has been flowing through my head over the last three weeks. Honestly, I'm worried that if I decline, I'll regret it for the rest of my life. I came here because I know most of you have been through it; you guys know who succeeds and who fails at the academy through experience. While none of you know me personally, I'm hoping that I've provided enough insight into my thoughts and motives. And seriously, thank you so much for reading this mess of a post. Any advice would mean the world to me.