humbledmomma
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- Aug 2, 2019
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Good morning,
First, I would like to thank those of you who created this site and the wonderful feed back each of the members provide. I have tried to read just about everything.
I found this site when my DS first sat us down at the end of his junior year and let us know what he wants to do after H.S. I provided him three binders for SAs and a folder for the senators & congressman and told him I’m humbled and very proud of him but I wanted him to take ownership of this journey so he can make sure it is what he wants. (Believe me when I say, it is the hardest thing to land this momma helicopter and let him do it all)
Here is some background on him. Top 10% of his class, 4.4 weighted GPA (due to 7 AP classes thus far and about to take 5 more AP classes this year) about to begin his senior year, varsity football, varsity baseball, weightlifting (doesn’t compete due to baseball season but works out with them) he is also spending mornings running through the CFA requirements trying to get a practice max out score before he takes the CFA. He also does fall baseball workouts after football practice and during baseball season does spring football before baseball practice if no games that day.
Fast forward to the past few weeks, he received an invitation to a CVW and we accepted the invitation and are waiting for a response with the actual dates. He received his DoDMERB and DoDMETS as well this past week. We did the questions on the DoDMETS but haven’t finished due to the only Yes on the orthodontist question, he is getting a treatment plan and date of when his braces come off(in 6-8 weeks. We’ll know today)
And now the DoDMERB part, yesterday, he had his yearly well appointment with his Dr. they decided to do an EKG this year and they said the computer showed abnormal. (I forgot to add above, he has a small yard service in our neighborhood and mowed two yards before showering and going to his appointment. It rains here in the afternoons). He’s a harry fellow so they shaved him but kept messing with the stickers, even when she did the test. And he was given a referral to a cardiologist. We have an appointment the end of next week.
What do we do about DoDMERB & DoDMETS? I have not made the appointments yet for the physical and eye. Should I wait? Is it true in athletes that EKG can give false positives due to variations? If he’s cleared, I will get as much documentation the cardiologist will provide to give to the DoDMERB ppl. I’m unsure how to proceed. Any advice is appreciated. We want to be as transparent as possible but be in front of any issues so DS doesn’t get flagged. But I also do not want to create issues trying to be to proactive.
One more thought for perspective. DS history is having chicken pox at two y.o., strep throat once and tonsillitis 3 times. That’s it. I verified with his Dr.
Sorry it is so long!! Any advice is appreciated!
First, I would like to thank those of you who created this site and the wonderful feed back each of the members provide. I have tried to read just about everything.
I found this site when my DS first sat us down at the end of his junior year and let us know what he wants to do after H.S. I provided him three binders for SAs and a folder for the senators & congressman and told him I’m humbled and very proud of him but I wanted him to take ownership of this journey so he can make sure it is what he wants. (Believe me when I say, it is the hardest thing to land this momma helicopter and let him do it all)
Here is some background on him. Top 10% of his class, 4.4 weighted GPA (due to 7 AP classes thus far and about to take 5 more AP classes this year) about to begin his senior year, varsity football, varsity baseball, weightlifting (doesn’t compete due to baseball season but works out with them) he is also spending mornings running through the CFA requirements trying to get a practice max out score before he takes the CFA. He also does fall baseball workouts after football practice and during baseball season does spring football before baseball practice if no games that day.
Fast forward to the past few weeks, he received an invitation to a CVW and we accepted the invitation and are waiting for a response with the actual dates. He received his DoDMERB and DoDMETS as well this past week. We did the questions on the DoDMETS but haven’t finished due to the only Yes on the orthodontist question, he is getting a treatment plan and date of when his braces come off(in 6-8 weeks. We’ll know today)
And now the DoDMERB part, yesterday, he had his yearly well appointment with his Dr. they decided to do an EKG this year and they said the computer showed abnormal. (I forgot to add above, he has a small yard service in our neighborhood and mowed two yards before showering and going to his appointment. It rains here in the afternoons). He’s a harry fellow so they shaved him but kept messing with the stickers, even when she did the test. And he was given a referral to a cardiologist. We have an appointment the end of next week.
What do we do about DoDMERB & DoDMETS? I have not made the appointments yet for the physical and eye. Should I wait? Is it true in athletes that EKG can give false positives due to variations? If he’s cleared, I will get as much documentation the cardiologist will provide to give to the DoDMERB ppl. I’m unsure how to proceed. Any advice is appreciated. We want to be as transparent as possible but be in front of any issues so DS doesn’t get flagged. But I also do not want to create issues trying to be to proactive.
One more thought for perspective. DS history is having chicken pox at two y.o., strep throat once and tonsillitis 3 times. That’s it. I verified with his Dr.
Sorry it is so long!! Any advice is appreciated!