Clarkson is correct about it depends on the job. When I said the meetings to schedule meetings that doesn't really exist in the Operational world, OSS, Maintenande, Flying etc. I can't say if it happens for A & F or PA.
The family issue, I still standby. For example, child 1 was born and they came to me asking if we would have family help after his birth, If we didn't because DS was only 10 days old, they would pull Bullet from the TDY...AF.
Child 3, (2 under 4, and I was not allowed to be out of 20 miles from the hospital, since Child 2 was born in 47 minutes) Bullet was sent to jump into the woods on my due date for a 10 day TDY. He asked what if my wife goes into labor? Oh well, you are still going! DS was born the day after he returned. That was the 82nd.
When he was at Leavenworth, we both got teased constantly about being the Prima Donna service.
The rotations vary for the AF because they have Expeditionary Wings. For the 4th FW, the typical rotation would be 2 4 months tours within @ 18 months. Go Jan - May 2010, than go July 2011 - Nov 2011. A lot has to do with SOFA, on how long aircraft can stay in the country, thus, they rotate them in and out.
Now let me say this about the Army, I loved every second of Bullet's 2 assignments, and as a wife, I would say that they are much closer knit than the AF. Probably because of deployments. I loved Fayetteville, NC 5000 times more than Goldsboro NC.
The military life is what you make of it. The thing is to always make it fun, no matter what the job or where the assignment is. It is an adventure, if you relish that thought, no matter what branch you commit to, you will have the time of your life with no regrets.
OBTW, Clarkson, I meant no offense to the Army, I respect and admire them a lot. Trust me, I believe that their dedication is out the door amazing...honestly, even as an AF family, after living 4 yrs with the Army at 2 different bases, the AF is the Prima Donna's of the big 3.