DS signed up and paid for a flight himself. Attending CVW 3/2-3/4. Advice on transportation from BWI to USNA and back for minor traveling alone. Are their any documents needed to be signed by parents and can they be signed prior to arrival? Do you recommend a sleeping bag or sheets and blanket? Is it ok to bring a care basket to plebes in charge of your visit? Is there anything allowed or not allowed as a thank you? Obviously, if family member can go, it's a great opportunity, but is there anything significant a parent will miss by not going?
For a minor traveling alone. DS attended 3 FBLA national competitions while in high school. He downloaded the Uber and Lyft apps prior to attending.
He was able to use both for transportation solo when he was 15-17.
I’ve never met a plebe who doesn’t appreciate home baked goods or nice snacks. If you attend in person, hit the Amish Market for some baked goods. No midshipmen has ever refused those golden treats.
Keep in mind these ‘hosts’ are in the thick of things and may not always be Uber positive or upbeat. They are burning the midnight oil to say the least. Being the host of a ‘drag’ is an additional task to their already overburdened schedule. Keep that in mind.
Any documents needed will be provided by USNA.
This is also a time, if parents are comfortable, to let go. Your son or daughter is making this choice. They will be the one living it, surviving it, embracing it, learning and growing from it. If the life and call to serve is right for them, they, not you will be signing their 2/7. That takes some getting used to.
I’m not a helicopter parent in any way. But letting this part be solely my son’s was a challenge. My apprehensions and fears and anxiety can’t be a factor. This decision is his. This path is his. This journey is his. I’m his biggest fan and cheerleader and will always be. His growth in 3 years is beyond what I can speak to. His relationships with mentors and shipmates will be lifelong.
This is for sure N*ot College. In my personal journey, the sooner you come to peace with this and support the choice and opportunities afforded to your no longer ‘kiddo’, the more peaceful this journey will be.
I apologize for my digression into the self reflection. Can’t believe commissioning is 15 months away.