kisha41474
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Hi,
My son will be commissioning in (I can't believe this) just over a week. I have asked what guests need to wear (inside ceremony) and his answer, was based on his watching previous commissions, a lot formal. Cadre as at least as of yesterday, not advised them on dress for guests not in a uniform. He is supposed to be asking, but he is very busy with all the paperwork, so do not know for sure when he will get back to me, and I need to know if I have to shop. I had planned on wearing an ankle length dressy but, spaghetti strapped dress (same as I wore to DH retirement ceremony) but, DS has me a little bit worried. Any input while I wait on him would be great.
Next question, he obviously knows his first duty station, and called to see what he needs to get on waiting list (he is married), they told him he at least has to have his rip. All of his previous orders for anything, from field training to flight physical have come to him 24-48 hours before he has to be there. He is under the impression this will not change, again based on observations. For him as an individual, this really isn't a big deal, but when you add in spouse, and the need of TMO, which again needs a rip, causes a problem. In this case, I'm more worried about my DIL than about him getting to duty station. If it stays the normal 24-48 hours, there will be no way to get TMO set up before he leaves.
I know now, housing will not make exception, but we are unsure about TMO. He is working on finding that out as well, but he is Wing IG right now, and cadre recently put him in charge of a few more things, and sadly, just being IG kept him busy enough, add in paperwork for ROTC to commission and his extra duties, getting information to me is not a priority for him (No, I have no problem with that, his main concern is his wife as it should be). So I'm a little impatient, and also wanting to plan out if my DIL's mom and I are going to go help her out with TMO they currently live with 2 room mates, lots of eyes needed to ensure TMO doesn't pack wrong items, all previous AD can probably understand that LOL.
Do any of yall have experience with a difference of actually getting a rip, or your orders for first duty station faster than he has normally gotten orders? His report date is almost exactly 2 weeks after commissioning, and from his understanding, his EAD is his report date.
Any information yall can give me would be awesome. The times he does call me, I really just want to enjoy the call, he's going to undergrad pilot training, so my calls will become few and far between, and due to his training schedule, and how far away they will be, they want to focus on paying off loans, visit home could be a couple of years. That's why I just want to cherish my calls now, I know pathetic, but extremely proud mom LOL
My son will be commissioning in (I can't believe this) just over a week. I have asked what guests need to wear (inside ceremony) and his answer, was based on his watching previous commissions, a lot formal. Cadre as at least as of yesterday, not advised them on dress for guests not in a uniform. He is supposed to be asking, but he is very busy with all the paperwork, so do not know for sure when he will get back to me, and I need to know if I have to shop. I had planned on wearing an ankle length dressy but, spaghetti strapped dress (same as I wore to DH retirement ceremony) but, DS has me a little bit worried. Any input while I wait on him would be great.
Next question, he obviously knows his first duty station, and called to see what he needs to get on waiting list (he is married), they told him he at least has to have his rip. All of his previous orders for anything, from field training to flight physical have come to him 24-48 hours before he has to be there. He is under the impression this will not change, again based on observations. For him as an individual, this really isn't a big deal, but when you add in spouse, and the need of TMO, which again needs a rip, causes a problem. In this case, I'm more worried about my DIL than about him getting to duty station. If it stays the normal 24-48 hours, there will be no way to get TMO set up before he leaves.
I know now, housing will not make exception, but we are unsure about TMO. He is working on finding that out as well, but he is Wing IG right now, and cadre recently put him in charge of a few more things, and sadly, just being IG kept him busy enough, add in paperwork for ROTC to commission and his extra duties, getting information to me is not a priority for him (No, I have no problem with that, his main concern is his wife as it should be). So I'm a little impatient, and also wanting to plan out if my DIL's mom and I are going to go help her out with TMO they currently live with 2 room mates, lots of eyes needed to ensure TMO doesn't pack wrong items, all previous AD can probably understand that LOL.
Do any of yall have experience with a difference of actually getting a rip, or your orders for first duty station faster than he has normally gotten orders? His report date is almost exactly 2 weeks after commissioning, and from his understanding, his EAD is his report date.
Any information yall can give me would be awesome. The times he does call me, I really just want to enjoy the call, he's going to undergrad pilot training, so my calls will become few and far between, and due to his training schedule, and how far away they will be, they want to focus on paying off loans, visit home could be a couple of years. That's why I just want to cherish my calls now, I know pathetic, but extremely proud mom LOL