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My spider sense, reading between the lines, is finances. As already stated.
I would STRONGLY figure this piece out. Honestly, you are taking quite a gamble whith this, counting in this being your best route to becoming an officer. @MidCakePa hit the mail on the head…if you lack “finish and focus”, the officer piece will never become an option for you. And if it doesn’t, do you still want to serve??
My oldest was unable to pass a DODMERB, disqualifying medical surgery issues. He rerouted, joined the Guards, and had his college paid for. He LOVES his job. Has since graduated college, drills one weekend a month in an assessment job, and has a well paying civilian career.
He couldn’t be an officer. You may not, either. Keep that in mind!! You may not be who OCS (or whatever xxx officer program) selects. You may not clear a medical exam. You may not have academics that your competition does. It’s NOT a given, although you speak as if it is. I’m not trying to rain on your parade, but am trying to point out that there are still SIGNIFICANT pieces left to becoming an officer.
Maybe you are a dreamer, and this indecisiveness is only expressed here on a safe, anonymous forum (although nothing is truly anonymous…). Perhaps you don’t present yourself this way IRL. IDK. But ‘focus and finish’ is great advice.
I suspect this next year for you will be a clarifying one. You will be able to evaluate yourself in an academic, military and competitive environment that you haven’t yet been able to. And see what/who is your competition. ‘Focus and finish’ strong, and THEN you can adapt and evaluate your next course of actions.
But you really need to keep you eyes forward, and focus on school. Routing for you to have a successful year. How many more days until you leave???
I would STRONGLY figure this piece out. Honestly, you are taking quite a gamble whith this, counting in this being your best route to becoming an officer. @MidCakePa hit the mail on the head…if you lack “finish and focus”, the officer piece will never become an option for you. And if it doesn’t, do you still want to serve??
My oldest was unable to pass a DODMERB, disqualifying medical surgery issues. He rerouted, joined the Guards, and had his college paid for. He LOVES his job. Has since graduated college, drills one weekend a month in an assessment job, and has a well paying civilian career.
He couldn’t be an officer. You may not, either. Keep that in mind!! You may not be who OCS (or whatever xxx officer program) selects. You may not clear a medical exam. You may not have academics that your competition does. It’s NOT a given, although you speak as if it is. I’m not trying to rain on your parade, but am trying to point out that there are still SIGNIFICANT pieces left to becoming an officer.
Maybe you are a dreamer, and this indecisiveness is only expressed here on a safe, anonymous forum (although nothing is truly anonymous…). Perhaps you don’t present yourself this way IRL. IDK. But ‘focus and finish’ is great advice.
I suspect this next year for you will be a clarifying one. You will be able to evaluate yourself in an academic, military and competitive environment that you haven’t yet been able to. And see what/who is your competition. ‘Focus and finish’ strong, and THEN you can adapt and evaluate your next course of actions.
But you really need to keep you eyes forward, and focus on school. Routing for you to have a successful year. How many more days until you leave???