Just get out there and see the world before you acquire spouse, house, kids, aging Elders, etc. At some point in your life, you may be physically unable to travel.
As a single JO, I went to Spain and Italy, 5.5 years total. The opportunity to live in a foreign country, immerse yourself in the culture, travel extensively, broaden your horizons - shaped my life. AND - your friends and family will want to come visit you. Some of my best memories.
I had two tours in Pearl Harbor. When else in your life are you going to get to live full-time in Hawai’i? Get to see all the other accessible islands? More than once? On weekends? With your bike and new friends? Great opportunity to take up a new outdoor sport. I joined the Navy Women’s Outrigger Club and Hawai’i Trail and Mountain Club. HTMC gets permission to hike on private land, and you get to see the real Paradise parts of the Islands. Misty valleys, falls, ancient ruins, stunning views.
Several of our sponsored USNA mids-now-alumni have had duty there. Most had a roommate and lived comfortably in nice condos with community pools a few blocks from the beach in Kailua or Kaneohe; easy enough commute via H-3, Likelike or Pali through stunning mountain passes to Tripler. Rainbows most days, double and triple ones often. Local and military discounts. Plenty of help and advice on finding places to live. And, did I mention friends and family? We kept the guest room stocked with beach towels, beach bags, tourist brochures and a list of recommendations.
Just go. Of course, that’s me. I’m in the mood right now, because DH and I have a cruise coming up, and I just booked a zip lining rain forest canopy excursion in Costa Rica and a volcano hike in Nicaragua. Work hard, play hard.