Wow , nice walk down memory lane for me! Both my girls were pretty much HS'd, they both took a few classes at our local HS, they both competed on the sports teams which was really fun for them. Both of them told me later they never really took deadlines seriously until they attended school with others. They attended local homeschool classes with homework and both did well (and they did their homework) so I was surprised to hear that they still needed work with deadlines after all that. D-1 absolutely loved the AFA, loved to be on teams, is very social , she loves the AF, and is hoping to return to USAFA some day as a 'counselor' who lives in the squadron (not sure what the actual title is). At the first phone call home during the first summer she said this was the best summer camp she had ever attended, she was always a super active kid -- .. She found her people and her life . She loved the regionalism of the other cadets, coming from all parts of the country with different accents. She is 31 years and she gets mostly perfect on the fitness scores still. She was trying to make some of the air force sports teams like the marathon team or maybe triathlon team but I discouraged her from running so much mileage continually at such a young age. On my mom's side we all love to run and we don't really have any injuries but I feel one shouldn't push their luck so you can continue to do it all your life. She gets up early and runs her dog before work. She always had great observation skills and attention to detail, she inspects different bases, and I sort of feel sorry for them, not much gets by her sharp eyes! She has lost some absolutely dear AFA friends from crashes or IED's. (maybe 10 since graduation?) and I feel really bad for her. She said that is the worst for her... Other than that she loves her work , loves her uniform, and is hoping to stay in as long as possible. (you never know of course) She is a language specialist (not her main career field) and she takes online classes to keep up her language. She told me that she has an easy time with the online classes (she finished her Masters online) as she learned how to learn independently as a homeschooler. I had used Craigslist to find tutors, and so now she usually looks for a local language tutor whenever she changes bases . Both girls attribute their very wide variety of interests and love of education to their homeschooled background.
D-2 looked up to her sister, and was super interested in following in the same footsteps. She wasn't quite as athletic but she is fairly smart and hard working so I thought it might be OK for her if she was interested. ie, She only missed 2 questions on the SAT I think . She loved Sea Cadets and moved up the ranks quickly to the top. The adults told me she could quell 50 boys with one look....!When she was phone interviewed for summer seminar the interviewer was pretty mean to her, and told her she was just trying to be like her sister . (I didn't hear the details but he made her cry so guess he wasn't very nice to her) So that was that, and that ended her interest. It was for the best... She did Running Start and was a senior in standing by age 18 (and on the dean's list) . She is 23 and just got 3 degrees, (2 BS's- CS, Physics) and one BA Math and has just two quarters to finish up her MS in CS along with working. . She was on the college boxing team much to our horror. Her summer internships in her field pay shockingly well just for student jobs. She works with the Cloud and she loves it. She loves her work each day .. Some of the companies allow dogs at work, and she loves that.. . I asked her if she had any regrets not going into the military and she said the work wouldn't be right for her as she really loves what she does. She did say that her eclectic background made her very rounded and happy, compared to her other co workers in tech, she said many of them are very socially awkward ... It sounds like the majority of them have a hard time even carrying on a conversation. Both girls are happy, and both of them have thanked me many times for all the time I invested in them doing the homeschooling and told me that it gave them more time to develop more interests which both continue to this day... Thanks for letting me reminisce..
the homeschool is long over (yay!) but the development gave them just so much..... in different ways...