My dd is in the middle of applying for colleges and AFROTC. She is a phenomenal student and, my dh and I believe, she will thrive in ROTC. However, she is having a great deal of anxiety lately - mostly due to the "what ifs" at this stage in life: What if I don't get into the college I want? What if I don't like my major? What if I don't like ROTC? What if I don't make friends? What if.....????
She has met with a counselor for a few months - not on a regular basis because of scheduling conflicts. I told the counselor that we wanted to avoid meds if at all possible. Since my dd is still a minor, the counselor would have to discuss with me if she thinks meds are necessary. The counselor has not discussed anything with me, so I don't think she believes it is necessary (but then my dd said she hasn't gone into detail of what it feels like when she is so worried). We mentioned all this to the pediatrician, and he said that if it gets to the point where she is overly anxious, he could prescribe something.
DD has been overwhelmed this week and I want to help her, but am so concerned her possible future with ROTC will be ruined if she is prescribed something for anxiety. I truly believe once college applications are in (she is applying EA) and the ROTC process is complete, she will be able to take a deep breath and all will be fine.
Is it this cut and dry? If you take anxiety meds you are DQ'd?
Thanks in advance for any advice or personal experience. I know her mental health is the #1 priority, but I feel this is somewhat "normal" teenage angst with my overly-dramatic (sometimes) daughter.
She has met with a counselor for a few months - not on a regular basis because of scheduling conflicts. I told the counselor that we wanted to avoid meds if at all possible. Since my dd is still a minor, the counselor would have to discuss with me if she thinks meds are necessary. The counselor has not discussed anything with me, so I don't think she believes it is necessary (but then my dd said she hasn't gone into detail of what it feels like when she is so worried). We mentioned all this to the pediatrician, and he said that if it gets to the point where she is overly anxious, he could prescribe something.
DD has been overwhelmed this week and I want to help her, but am so concerned her possible future with ROTC will be ruined if she is prescribed something for anxiety. I truly believe once college applications are in (she is applying EA) and the ROTC process is complete, she will be able to take a deep breath and all will be fine.
Is it this cut and dry? If you take anxiety meds you are DQ'd?
Thanks in advance for any advice or personal experience. I know her mental health is the #1 priority, but I feel this is somewhat "normal" teenage angst with my overly-dramatic (sometimes) daughter.