OK, let me clarify myself. I am an AF officer, first and formost. Second, I am currently flying in F-15Es, and have been off and on (between some staff jobs and some joint PME) since 1995. I flew F-111s before that. My badge says "Master Navigator", but call me one to my face, or to the face of any WSO, and you'll quickly be shut-down. We're WSOs, a part of the 2 man team that strikes fear int he heart of the enemy, and we ge insulted if you compare us to guys who sit in the rear of a muti-engine aircraft taking celestial shots (no offense to those who have doe this important job).
Spending the past 20+ years in a two person fighter, the title of "fighter jock" kinda gets melded between all of us, the guys in the front seat and the guys in the back. The SAMs and AAA I've ducked in bad guy land didn't make a distinction between the two guys in the jet (Achmed, make sure you only shoot the guy in the front seat. We don't want to waste our missile on the WSO!")
I've spent my career a part of a team. I've studied tactics, threats, and systems side by side with every squadron mate, pilot and WSO. I've had a fighter jock's callsign (which I had to earn from my squadron mates) for over 20 years (Wife and kids know that if they want to get my attention, they need to scream, "Bullet!") I've drank scotch, sang rude songs, insulted shoe clerks, fought other teams in crud, and gotten into "heated arguements" with other members outside of my squadron and community side by side with all my squadron mates the entire time. Bottom Line: I AM a fighter jock. It's an attitude and a mentality, and in my community it is a given.
Now, when a young man or woman has a question concerning the what it is like to be a fighter jock, even a pilot, I think I have the expereince and the credentials to accurately answer their questions. I have done nothing but give these kids posting here sound advise and honest judgement. I've given the same to young men and women I have commanded or lead over the past 20 years, to include authoring their recommendations for everything from applications to UPT, Weapon School, and the Thunderbirds. I know what it takes to succeed in the fighter community, and what the AF is looking for (I won't presume to tell anyone how to go about getting these slots from my sister services, except for some basic, general thoughts).
So, if I feel that I know what it's like to fly fighters, and what it takes to be a successful fighter pilot, it just comes from my years of experience working with and in this field.
Now that you made some accusations about my credibilty towards flying fighters, I have to ask, What did you fly?