No, I am not a calming voice...ask my kids
I just have walked those 10 miles (months) in your shoes, and by the end, I was at my wits end, screaming LET ME OFF THIS FREAKING RIDE.
I remember every day of looking up at the sky and waiting for the shoe to fall....or the walk to the mailbox with my stomach in knots thinking "is this the day our DS screams for joy, or the day I hold him and say it isn't over".
It is hard enough to go through the college selection process for any parent, harder still when it is tied to a 3rd party (scholarship), even harder understanding that your child is willing to sacrifice their life for this country and they are 17/18.
Strangers and family members don't get it. You spend your time, at least we did, explaining this is their dream, and as a parent I need to do everything I can to see it through for them...this is their life, their choice...we raised an intelligent child to fly on their own, and this is the way we want to fly.
That is why this site is so great. It is hard to explain to a friend or a family member why you would place your child in the military (danger) and not just take a loan. They don't get it. You are not placing them there, they are placing their self there. They have shown more maturity than the avg adult.
Wherever their road takes them, this my advice...tell them that people like me are so thankful for people like them. We are so thankful that they are/were willing to be stationed on the DMZ for Xmas as we carve our turkeys and hams.
Again, for some there will be happy news when the list is released. For some not so happy. For the not so happy it isn't over! Join AROTC, and try again.
Look at Colin Powell, he was not a WP grad, he was an admitted C student...
"e received his Bachelor of Science degree in geology from the City College of New York in 1958 and was a self-admitted C average student". He just decided he was unwilling to take NO for an answer when it came to his life.
OBTW, I respect everyone who chooses what is best for them, off/on the ride, I get it. Life is a balancing act and eventually the balance will tilt.
For those that stay, it is important to get it isn't over...come Dec. when grades are out the next thing will be are they in jeopardy of losing the scholarship...than it is LDAC, than it is career paths. It doesn't end just with the scholarship.