This makes me very sad. Every year dozens, if not hundreds, of candidates wait anxiously for months on end, hoping beyond hope that they will be notified of an appointment, and only a select few are chosen.
Then they get to the P and suddenly decide that they don't want to "deal with the crap"????
I wish they would do more research before wasting these precious opportunities. I realize that this is much easier said than done. I think that anyone who has the proper motivation can get through anything if they want their goals badly enough.
This isn't a fair statement. Unless you have been there and done that you cannot even imagine what it is like. There are many excellent people that leave the academy or prep school every year. They aren't bad people for figuring out it isn't for them. They were more qualified than the candidates who didn't get the spot. Period. NOBODY is 100% sure it is right for them when they enter because NOBODY has been through it before.