I'm not so sure your dear hubby has messed up yet. When you say a "civil prep scholar" I assume you mean your son was a candidate
last year and has been (or is still) in the civil prep school and is hoping for an appointment to the Class of 2013 (as opposed to going to prep next year for Class of 2014). But, which academy?
For example, with USNA Foundation prep, they say the civil prep scholars have to "seek" a nomination from all sources available to them, but it isn't absolutely imperative they actually
receive one. At least that is what they said to us. That said, as you hear time and again, the appointment is "yours to lose" and there are a few each year who, for one reason or another, do not get appointed -- but not because they didn't get a nomination (again, for USNA). So, it (civil prep) is
not an LOA, which is a letter of assurance but
still needs a nomination. However, it is pretty solid, maybe even better, and even more so if you have a nomination. Having two or more isn't going to change things, I don't think.
Now, I'm giving you only our experience, and it may be different for AOG (West Point) or Falcon Foundation (USAFA) civil prep scholars. But, one other phone call might be to the civil prep folks to see just what your son needs. If they say your son has one, and that's all he needs, then you can quit giving your hubby that ol' "you might be in trouble, Buster!" look!
