I agree in principal but dont agree in a practical sense. If that makes any sense
"Not sure the academies are trying commission officers that put their needs ahead of everyone else."
My point isnt that one should put yourself over everyone else but that doesnt mean you should allow people to walk over you. That also doesnt mean that the needs of a University are superior to the needs of your child and more importantly that the University is taking your child's best interest into account. When you join the military, I get that the needs of the military take precedent over your own needs, but you know that going in. Having the college guilt you because you are being accused of being unethical doesnt work for me. The real issue is that you are screwing up the colleges paperwork and that somehow takes precedent over your child's future
"Timing of offers/appointments is not an issue. It is formally recognized that a student can withdraw from a previously accepted offer when a preferred offer materializes. The issue is with holding on to two or more offers after the specified deadline.
That may be true but people are talking about sending in a deposit to University A because they still havent heard from their academy of choice. Just look at the post about having been accepted to USNA but still wanted to send a deposit to a college in case something happened between acceptance to USNA and the first day of class. I havent read every post, but it doesnt seem to be an issue of sending deposits to multiple schools. I gather its accepting a college because you still dont know if you have been accepted to your academy of choice. What would the point be of sending deposits to multiple schools, so that you could delay choosing which one you say yes too. All schools have pretty much the same deadlines and the same acceptance day.
"Timing of offers/appointments is not an issue. It is formally recognized that a student can withdraw from a previously accepted offer when a preferred offer materializes. The issue is with holding on to two or more offers after the specified deadline"
I dont think that is true. You if make a deposit, you are committed. If you apply Early Decision, forget about a deposit. you cant even say no if they accept you. As i said before , what would the point be of sending deposits to multiple schools, so that you could delay choosing which one you say yes too. All schools have pretty much the same deadlines and the same acceptance day. Its the academies that go beyond the May 1 date
As for the guidance counselors, I would feel bad for the school and the counselors if they were hurt by the actions.
"Not sure the academies are trying commission officers that put their needs ahead of everyone else."
My point isnt that one should put yourself over everyone else but that doesnt mean you should allow people to walk over you. That also doesnt mean that the needs of a University are superior to the needs of your child and more importantly that the University is taking your child's best interest into account. When you join the military, I get that the needs of the military take precedent over your own needs, but you know that going in. Having the college guilt you because you are being accused of being unethical doesnt work for me. The real issue is that you are screwing up the colleges paperwork and that somehow takes precedent over your child's future
"Timing of offers/appointments is not an issue. It is formally recognized that a student can withdraw from a previously accepted offer when a preferred offer materializes. The issue is with holding on to two or more offers after the specified deadline.
That may be true but people are talking about sending in a deposit to University A because they still havent heard from their academy of choice. Just look at the post about having been accepted to USNA but still wanted to send a deposit to a college in case something happened between acceptance to USNA and the first day of class. I havent read every post, but it doesnt seem to be an issue of sending deposits to multiple schools. I gather its accepting a college because you still dont know if you have been accepted to your academy of choice. What would the point be of sending deposits to multiple schools, so that you could delay choosing which one you say yes too. All schools have pretty much the same deadlines and the same acceptance day.
"Timing of offers/appointments is not an issue. It is formally recognized that a student can withdraw from a previously accepted offer when a preferred offer materializes. The issue is with holding on to two or more offers after the specified deadline"
I dont think that is true. You if make a deposit, you are committed. If you apply Early Decision, forget about a deposit. you cant even say no if they accept you. As i said before , what would the point be of sending deposits to multiple schools, so that you could delay choosing which one you say yes too. All schools have pretty much the same deadlines and the same acceptance day. Its the academies that go beyond the May 1 date
As for the guidance counselors, I would feel bad for the school and the counselors if they were hurt by the actions.
- Of course you disagree. Everything you wrote after "I don't disagree" was a statement of disagreement.
- Not sure the academies are trying commission officers that put their needs ahead of everyone else.
- High school counselors work hard to establish and maintain relationships with college admissions officers. Applicant behavior can reflect well and poorly on the counselor and the school. Future applicants rejected by that college because of the behavior of previous applicants from that high school will not likely brush it off as "it is what it is".
- There is a real chance of getting caught. Those who do get caught end up sweating bullets, praying it is not reported to the academy. Some of those went ahead with the secret Plan B because they read on this forum how sensible it was.
- Timing of offers/appointments is not an issue. It is formally recognized that a student can withdraw from a previously accepted offer when a preferred offer materializes. The issue is with holding on to two or more offers after the specified deadline.