USMAcandidate839
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West Point has been my dream since I entered high school and something I have worked towards for the past four years. I have done every thing possible to increase my chances of admission and would not trade an appointment for anything. Any other college or university in the world could offer me a full scholarship and I’d easily turn them down for the opportunity to attend the Academy.
I’ve recently received a nomination from my Congressman and if admitted will, without a doubt, choose USMA.
That being said, my mother is EXTREMELY opposed to me doing anything associated with the army, and not without good reason. My grandfather was wounded twice during the Normandy invasion, a cousin of mine was killed in Korea, another cousin came under fire while serving in Afghanistan, and my brother in law was wounded in Iraq and is dealing with a minor form of PTSD from the experience.
To put this in perspective, she has told me she is “ashamed,” wished “she never had a son” if she knew “this is what he was going to do with his life,” and that she would not attend RDay and may even refuse to visit me while in the Academy.
She is a great mother, but my desire to serve in the military is worrying her to death. I do not think she truly means much of what she says.
Any suggestions to make my choice easier for her?
Thanks
I’ve recently received a nomination from my Congressman and if admitted will, without a doubt, choose USMA.
That being said, my mother is EXTREMELY opposed to me doing anything associated with the army, and not without good reason. My grandfather was wounded twice during the Normandy invasion, a cousin of mine was killed in Korea, another cousin came under fire while serving in Afghanistan, and my brother in law was wounded in Iraq and is dealing with a minor form of PTSD from the experience.
To put this in perspective, she has told me she is “ashamed,” wished “she never had a son” if she knew “this is what he was going to do with his life,” and that she would not attend RDay and may even refuse to visit me while in the Academy.
She is a great mother, but my desire to serve in the military is worrying her to death. I do not think she truly means much of what she says.
Any suggestions to make my choice easier for her?
Thanks