B Split. She's afraid of going to sea.Is she A or B split, if she's B it's pretty obvious why she wants to quit.
B Split. She's afraid of going to sea.
Sorry to hear that. It's not for everyone, whether merchant or Navy. Hard on you as parents, but it happens to some number of mids and cadets across all SAs, that "oh no, this is not AT ALL what I thought it would be." Just love them and calmly ask what their plan is.
Not for us to pry into the source of her concern, but I hope she can muster the courage to figure out exactly what it is that is stopping her, and if she can't overcome it this time, be prepared to push herself next time when faced with a life challenge.
A quote from someone I was fortunate to have a seminar class with in college, and with whom I talked about my decision to go into the Navy, and my fears:
"I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life’s a *itch. You’ve got to go out and kick a**."
- Dr. Maya Angelou
(I edited for SAF.)
How is a woman going to raise her kids if she is out at sea?
If she says she is afraid to go out to sea, she does not belong out at sea.