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Reading this thread is satisfying that I am not alone feeling the anxiety and emptiness...DS is my 2nd. When the 1st son was leaving home for college, it was all about the excitement and freshness of new starting for him, I did not even go to drop him off to college, but he was well travelled and we all sort of know what will happen (he was with NROTC unit), all good. However, the 2nd, going to USMA, it was hard. Part of it was the DS wants to have the grow-up treatment but we the parents are not ready for it yet and still thinks him as the younger kids in the house esp when his brother left home. So there was a bit of tension going on between us. R-day dropping off was very quiet in the car, hugging at the Buffalo Soldier Field was tough for me, eyes wetted. The BCT was a black hole, receiving his letter made my day that I memorized what he wrote. A-day and family weekend was very satisfying and pleasant with all of us together at WP including his old brother. Coming home for holiday break was great, but he still does not talk too much to us which makes me very sad. Family vacation at Hawaii was nice with golfing, surfing etc. But wished he was that little boy that I could grab and go to things without hesitation. Now I sensed his mind is more with friends from high school, sports teams, buddies at USMA...talking about not having spring break with us, but going skiing or surfing with friends from USMA. I am happy he is growing and building his own circle, but sad that the good old time is gone, I will not have that jump hug anymore. Feel like I have a lot to say to him, to ask him, but time is too short, or he does not talk much, which makes me very sad.