I am going to guess that you live in a rural area since you attend a small school, ride horses, and need a ride to participate in sports. Can you share which Congressional District you live in? I may be able to help identify opportunities if I had a better idea of your general geography. You can find your Congressional District here:
https://www.house.gov/representatives/find-your-representative
Here is the information from the USNA Class Profile for the Class of 2024
1. Varsity Athletics - 91%
2. Community Service - 90%
3. Captain/Co-Captain of Sports Team - 73%
4. National Honor Society - 67%
5. Student Body Leader - 66%
6. Dramatics, Public speaking or debating - 66%
7. Church Group - 47%
8. Tutoring - 44%
9. Work Experience (>10 hrs/week) - 35%
10. Musical Activities (Band, Chorus, Etc.) - 26%
11. Primary Language in Home Not English - 20%
12. Boy/Girl Scouts - 16%
13. ROTC/JROTC/Sea Cadets/Civil Air Pat. - 15%
14. First to Attend College in Family - 13%
15. School publication - 13%
16. First Generation American - 12%
17. Hardship or Adverse Life Experience - 11%
1&3. I would reach out to the people on this list from your state and ask them how to go about founding a rodeo team for your high school (make it known that you would like to be captain of the team):
https://nhsra.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/January-Directors-Pages.pdf
2. Do you belong to a church? If so ask them what community service you could do. You may be able to play guitar at church during service.
4&2. Your grades should qualify you for National Honor Society (this has a community service component so get ahead of that). You like to ride horses. If you like animals perhaps you could volunteer with a local animal shelter. Many shelters are looking for volunteers to foster cats with their kittens before the kittens can be adopted. This can be done at your home (with your parents' permission).
5. Consider running for class president or other student body leadership position (if you are successful at bringing a Rodeo Team to school you can probably count on your teammates to vote for you).
6. I would only consider Dramatics, Public speaking or debating if you are interested...but there may be other opportunities at your school. Have you considered volunteering to read school announcements each morning? Not a heavy lift and it will give you practice with public speaking.
7. If you are a member of a church, see if they have a youth group and express your interest in a leadership role.
8&2. Consider tutoring your peers (could count for community service...ask your High School Counselor).
9. Having a job is looked favorably upon. When I was your age, 70% of high school students held a job. Now only 30% do. Having a job helps you stand out.
10&2. You love to play guitar so leverage this. Can you play for sick children at a hospital or for elderly people in an elderly home? You would be surprised at how willing these organizations might be to have you come in and play. This would combine your passion for playing with your willingness to serve others.
11. Not sure if your family speaks another language at home. If so, great. If not, no worries.
12. There is most probably a Boy Scout or Girl Scout presence in your area. You will find that participation in these activities dies down in high school but there are great opportunities to earn a Gold Award or Eagle Scout. The clock is ticking, however.
13. Depending on where you live there may be ROTC/JROTC/Sea Cadets/Civil Air Patrol in your area. I know you are interested in USNA, but Civil Air Patrol is very highly regarded by all of the SAs. I would HIGHLY RECOMMEND getting involved if you can. There are endless opportunities for leadership positions. You will learn military customs and courtesies, how to wear a uniform, how to march, how to salute etc. You will also have the ability to attend (and in the future lead) encampments often held at military installations. There are also physical requirements which can help you as prepare for the CFA.
14. Not sure if your parents attended college.
15. Is there an opportunity to get involved in a school newspaper?
16. Not sure if you are a first generation American.
17. Not sure if you have lived through a hardship.
Most of the items on this list are within your control. Find your passions and pursue them and seek out leadership positions everywhere. If opportunities for community service don't exist create them yourself. You can start collecting clothing and noperishable items for Ukrainian refugees TODAY....some church or non profit will get them where they need to be. Recruit your friends to help you. Leadership is more than checking a box within an existing organization.
Also people typically do better on the SAT or the ACT. I would suggest sitting for proctored practice exams under time restrictions for both tests. My DD was able to take each for free at our library. Figure out which test you are better suited to, and do as much test prep as you can over the next year. Apply for Summer Seminar next year. SAs also seem to place a lot of weight in Boys/Girls State.
To answer your question about whether you should even apply....Wayne Gretzky famously said "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." Take your shot. Good luck!