bubblyroses
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Ever since I got into the SAs and told my teachers about them, I feel like that very fact has been turned against me as a way to justify heightened expectations. A few examples:
- I'm definitely not the fastest on my swim team but I'm not slow either. I improved a lot this season but my coach mentioned to the assistant coach that he'd have thought i'd "be faster for someone who's going to west point" (not indicative of my decision, that's where he thinks I want to go).
- A teacher scheduled a meeting during my morning free block, and I asked if we could schedule the next one during a free block that wasn't in the morning because I'd had my study halls eaten up by meetings, athletics, and theater productions so I worked later into the night than normal. I tried to tell him about how busy I was and he wasn't willing to listen and cut me off to say "for someone who wants to go to west point you're sure complaining a lot about not being able to sleep in" (again, not indicative of my choice, that's just the name that my teachers have remembered).
- We took a walk during stats class to the woods near school to take some measurements and collect data, and I said it was hot outside and my teacher literally said "you can't complain, you're going to the military." Sure, he laughed, but did he mean that?
Maybe i'm reading too much into these comments but it almost feels like my appointments have been weaponized in such a way that I'm somehow not allowed to complain about anything at all or that I should be better at everything or know how to tolerate more than others because I got into a SA, but that's all I did: get. in. I applied to college just like everyone else, and yeah I had to jump through the nomination, cfa, dodmerb hoops to qualify for an appointment, but AS OF NOW I am just like any other high schooler. I appreciate the prestige people have lent to my appointments because I am really proud of the work I've put in, but I am not attending a service academy and haven't had that real, military rigidity instilled in me, so I'm sorry if I want to take advantage of one of the last sleep-ins I have left in my academic career. Everyone keeps telling me to enjoy my senior year and that's what I'm trying to do.
Sorry for the lengthiness of this rant, it's just something I've been feeling for a while and I wanted to know if someone else had some other perspective that I'm maybe not seeing.
- I'm definitely not the fastest on my swim team but I'm not slow either. I improved a lot this season but my coach mentioned to the assistant coach that he'd have thought i'd "be faster for someone who's going to west point" (not indicative of my decision, that's where he thinks I want to go).
- A teacher scheduled a meeting during my morning free block, and I asked if we could schedule the next one during a free block that wasn't in the morning because I'd had my study halls eaten up by meetings, athletics, and theater productions so I worked later into the night than normal. I tried to tell him about how busy I was and he wasn't willing to listen and cut me off to say "for someone who wants to go to west point you're sure complaining a lot about not being able to sleep in" (again, not indicative of my choice, that's just the name that my teachers have remembered).
- We took a walk during stats class to the woods near school to take some measurements and collect data, and I said it was hot outside and my teacher literally said "you can't complain, you're going to the military." Sure, he laughed, but did he mean that?
Maybe i'm reading too much into these comments but it almost feels like my appointments have been weaponized in such a way that I'm somehow not allowed to complain about anything at all or that I should be better at everything or know how to tolerate more than others because I got into a SA, but that's all I did: get. in. I applied to college just like everyone else, and yeah I had to jump through the nomination, cfa, dodmerb hoops to qualify for an appointment, but AS OF NOW I am just like any other high schooler. I appreciate the prestige people have lent to my appointments because I am really proud of the work I've put in, but I am not attending a service academy and haven't had that real, military rigidity instilled in me, so I'm sorry if I want to take advantage of one of the last sleep-ins I have left in my academic career. Everyone keeps telling me to enjoy my senior year and that's what I'm trying to do.
Sorry for the lengthiness of this rant, it's just something I've been feeling for a while and I wanted to know if someone else had some other perspective that I'm maybe not seeing.