Wouldn’t put too much stock into what the loudest recruiters on this site say, but I would suggest doing more research…
Having worked at 2 SMCs and taught at 2 SAs, I can tell you that visiting these schools is the best way to determine which one to attend.
Two schools which are perhaps most similar, one in the north and one in the south, are Norwich and The Citadel. Both have a combination of cadets and civilian students, both offer night and online degrees, and both are regionally ranked. They are also very similar in size.
As far as larger schools, Texas A&M and Virginia Tech are similar in size, etc. However, while these schools may share similarities, they are all very different and they all have unique cultures, etc. The best way to make a choice is to visit.