This has been a great thread and I'm glad the debate has been respectful and hasn't needed to be locked down.
At the end of the day, I always struggle with the simple logic that those who are willing to kill are breaking the law. What could possibly make us believe that they would follow gun laws? Or magazine limits?
By simply entering the schools they are violating 'gun-free zone' laws. Clearly, they don't care.
I tend to agree with the limited capacity point that if someone willing to kill and break laws wants to do so, they will just carry more magazines.
Over and over I come back to the absolute breakdown of the family. If you look into the majority of 'mass shootings' you will find that the criminal came from a broken family. Predominantly fatherless families. That cannot be a coincidence.
No matter how hard single parents work to be stellar parents, they still only have one set of eyes and ears to monitor their children's behavior.
I have spent 8 years in a local public high school. I have encountered parents who don't know their kids have burner phones. Parents who have no clue what social media apps provide their kids access to, or whom.
Parents who don't know why their son brought a BB gun to school. Allegedly by accident.
Sadly, I have met kids and spent time with them that I wonder if I might read about in the news one day. Loners, male, reclusive, avoid eye contact and wear their hair over their eyes to further avoid human interaction. Add to that hoods to further hide from interpersonal relationships Socially awkward, immature, angry. Should I report every one of them? Post-Covid that might be 35% of all high school males.
Technology has a role here, too, IMHO. Phones, apps, games, computers, continuous means of streaming, IPads, tablets, where does it end? Kids have access to sites I couldn't possibly imagine or know where to find.
Parents are engaged in these technological activities as well and that further disengages them from active parenting.
My DH traveled out of state for work for over a decade when our kids were young. The demands on me were huge, I was a cook, maid, driver, personal assistant, fan, enforcer at large, you name it. Some days, I turned a blind eye to excessive screen time or a salty attitude. And I had means and a DH who supported us financially.
Not all single parents have the means, spare time, or energy. Extended families contribute, but I have yet to meet a Grandparent who can navigate TicTok or understands what a burner phone is. Or that their grandkid is using THC oil in a device that looks like a lipstick tube in class. ALL DAY. And that kid is 14 (not making it up, experienced this first hand). Excessive marijuana use via vapes in the undeveloped brains has consequences. Marijuana isn't what it used to be. Concentration levels of THC are incredibly high, and via vapes, they can use the product far more often than a traditional 'doobie', most of the time without detection.
The shootings that took place last weekend in Philly and TN involved young adults. I would bet most parents had no idea where they were or that they possessed guns. And I doubt those weapons were obtained through legal channels (not all info has been released, yes I am speculating). Young men in this country need mentors, guidance, and leadership. They need to be held accountable by parents, guardians, schools, and the community for the smallest of illegal transgressions early on. We let too much go by the wayside.
Anyhow, just my 2 cents.you